How to Break Down Bad Habits: 10 Evidence-Based Coaching Practices

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Practices that may help

1. Keep the cue and reward, swap the routine
   Duhigg’s “golden rule”: change a habit by inserting a new routine between the same cue and reward.
   The Power of Habit, Made Practical
2. Map the cue-routine-reward loop
   Break a habit into its three parts before you try to change anything.
   The Power of Habit, Made Practical
3. Shrink the behavior until it’s tiny
   Scale the habit down to something you can do even on your worst, busiest day.
   Tiny Habits, Made Practical
4. Shrink the habit until it is guaranteed
   Cut the behavior down until skipping it would be more effort than doing it.
   Micro Habits: Start Absurdly Small
5. Build precise awareness of when and how the habit occurs
   You can’t interrupt what you can’t detect — map the habit sequence in granular detail.
   Habit Reversal Training, Made Practical
6. Reduce the whole habit to one rule: don’t break the chain
   Replace a tangle of goals with a single instruction your brain can’t negotiate with.
   Don't Break the Chain: The Streak Method
7. Build the capture habit before anything else
   Install one habit at a time — start with ubiquitous capture — before adding other ZTD practices.
   Zen To Done (ZTD), Made Practical
8. Focus on keystone habits
   Change one high-leverage habit that cascades into other positive changes.
   The Power of Habit, Made Practical
9. Apply PDSA to a behavior you want to build or break
   Treat habit formation as a series of small experiments rather than a commitment you either keep or blow.
   Plan–Do–Study–Act: Deming’s Loop for Personal Improvement
10. Don't break the chain
    Mark each day you do the habit and aim never to break the unbroken run of marks.
    Habit Tracking

Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• Every time I try to break this habit I just try to white-knuckle it away and grit my teeth through the craving→
• I keep doing this thing I swear I’ll stop, and I genuinely can’t say what sets it off or what I’m even getting out of it→
• My new habits only survive on the good days when I’m rested and motivated, then the first hard, exhausting day comes and they collapse→
• Every habit I try sets the daily bar at what I think I should manage, and then the first exhausted, overwhelmed day comes and I just can’t face it→
• I only ever realize I’ve been picking (or pulling, or biting) after it’s already done→

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