Coaching practices for How to Meditate with Pain
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- I live with this ongoing ache, and the worst part isn’t even the ache itself
- My whole instinct is to push pain away and grab at anything that feels good, and I’m tired of how walled-off that makes me
- I’ve been fighting and trying to push away my own pain and it only tightens its grip
- When I’m aching, the more I focus on the sore spot the bigger it seems to get, until it’s all I can feel
- I sit down to meditate and instead I just stew
Practices that may help
- Applying the body scan to chronic or acute pain
Use the body scan to observe pain as sensation rather than threat, reducing the secondary suffering of pain-related fear.
Body Scan Meditation, Made Practical - Tonglen: sending and taking
Breathe in suffering (yours and others’); breathe out relief and well-being.
Lojong: Tibetan Mind Training - Practice tonglen for your own suffering first
Use your own current pain as the object before extending the practice to others.
Tonglen: The Tibetan Practice of Taking and Sending - Deploy attention away from pain and physical discomfort
Shifting attention away from pain signals reduces the experienced intensity of pain — a clinically proven, non-pharmacological technique.
Attentional Deployment, Made Practical - Working with ill will (byapada)
When aversion, irritation, or resentment enters meditation, meet it with loving-kindness for the person or thing triggering it.
The Five Hindrances: Diagnosing and Working with Meditation Obstacles - Mindful awareness of suffering
Hold painful feelings in balanced awareness — neither suppressing them nor being swept away by them.
Self-Compassion, Made Practical - Work with the classical two-breath texture
Breathe in something hot, dark, and heavy; breathe out something cool, bright, and spacious.
Tonglen: The Tibetan Practice of Taking and Sending - Approach the pain sensation with curiosity, not bracing
Turn toward the pain with the attitude of a curious scientist rather than a fearful sufferer.
Somatic Tracking, Made Practical - ACCEPTS — structured distraction from crisis
Use Activities, Contributing, Comparisons, Emotions, Pushing away, Thoughts, and Sensations to redirect attention during a crisis.
Distress Tolerance Skills, Made Practical - Acknowledge: name what is hard
Place a hand on your heart and say, "This is a moment of suffering."
The Self-Compassion Break
Related concerns
- Mindfulness And Pain Relief
Shifting attention away from pain signals reduces the experienced intensity of pain — a clinically proven, non-pharmacological technique.
Deploy attention away from pain and physical discomfort
- Acknowledge Pain
Acknowledge suffering as it actually is — without dramatising it or spiritual-bypassing it.
First noble truth — recognising dukkha honestly
- When Attentional Deployment Attentional Deployment Pain
Shifting attention away from pain signals reduces the experienced intensity of pain — a clinically proven, non-pharmacological technique.
- When Tonglen Tonglen Flash
A single in-breath of someone’s pain and an out-breath of goodwill is a complete act of tonglen.
Use flash tonglen in the moment of encountering suffering
- When Tonglen Tonglen Preparation Warmup
Entering tonglen from a grounded, spacious state makes the practice sustainable rather than destabilising.
Prepare for tonglen with a brief equanimity grounding
- Alan Gordon Pain Reprocessing
Somatic tracking, developed by Alan Gordon as the central technique of Pain Reprocessing Therapy (PRT), involves observing bodily sensations — especially pain — with open, curious, non-fearful attention. The goal is to change the brain’s interpretation of safe signals from dangerous to neutral, which can reduce or eliminate neuroplastic pain. A 2021 randomized controlled trial (the BOULDER study) found PRT produced significant pain reduction vs placebo and usual care for chronic back pain, with 66% of PRT participants reporting being pain-free or nearly pain-free.
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