Coaching practices for How to Respond to Why Are You Looking for a New Job
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- My whole job search is just refreshing job boards and firing off applications into the void, competing with hundreds of strangers for whatever happens to be posted
- Someone asks "so what are you looking for?" and I ramble out something vague and apologetic
- I want to message someone in a field I’m curious about, but I freeze on what to even say
- I’ve got the conversation booked but I’m staring at a blank page of questions, worried I’ll waste their time asking things I could’ve Googled
- The conversation goes great and then it just...
Practices that may help
- Build and work a target list of roles and organisations
Replace passive job board browsing with active research into specific organisations you want to understand.
Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network - Practise your story before you need it
Have a clear, genuine two-minute narrative about who you are and where you’re headed.
Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network - Request the conversation the right way
A short, specific, no-pressure request gets far more responses than a vague networking ask.
Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network - Prepare questions you genuinely don’t know the answer to
Ask about the unwritten realities of the role — the things no job posting reveals.
Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network - Close every informational interview with one forward step
End by asking: "Is there someone else you think I should talk to?"
Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network - Hire people who share the Why, not just the skills
Skills can be learned; shared belief cannot — filtering for Why-alignment at hiring is the highest-leverage culture move.
Start With Why: Leading Through Purpose - Ask: “Would I choose this today if I were starting fresh?”
Evaluate your current situation as if you were encountering it for the first time, without sunk costs.
Status Quo Bias — Why We Stick with the Default - Replace "why" with "how" or "what"
"Why" sounds accusatory; "how" and "what" invite problem-solving.
Calibrated Questions, Made Practical - Send a meaningful thank-you note
Write a follow-up that references something specific and reports back on how you used their advice.
Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network - Identify and anticipate upcoming transition windows
Treat approaching life changes as scheduled opportunities for habit installation — plan before the transition, not after.
The Habit Discontinuity Effect
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Replace passive job board browsing with active research into specific organisations you want to understand.
Build and work a target list of roles and organisations
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Ask about the unwritten realities of the role — the things no job posting reveals.
Prepare questions you genuinely don’t know the answer to
- How To Answer The Interview Question Why I Am Not Working At My Previous Job
Have a clear, genuine two-minute narrative about who you are and where you’re headed.
Practise your story before you need it
- Need Guidance On Job Search Process
Replace passive job board browsing with active research into specific organisations you want to understand.
- Signs You Will Get The Job After Interview
End by asking: "Is there someone else you think I should talk to?"
Close every informational interview with one forward step
- Can I Apply For A Job With My Minimal Experience
Replace passive job board browsing with active research into specific organisations you want to understand.
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