Ix on Demand: 10 Evidence-Based Coaching Practices
Describe almost anything you are working through and IX Coach finds the practices whose real-world fit is closest. For Ix on Demand, these are the strongest matches in the current practice library.
Practices that may help
- Effective One-on-Ones, Made Practical
An effective one-on-one is a recurring, protected meeting that belongs to your report: they own the agenda, and your job is to listen, unblock, and support their growth — not to run a status update. The relational mechanisms (regular contact, voice, support) are well grounded; the specific cadence and format are practitioner craft built on top of them. - Make it recurring and genuinely protected
A standing slot you almost never cancel beats a longer meeting held only when there’s a "reason."
Effective One-on-Ones, Made Practical - Urge Surfing: Riding Out the Impulse Without Acting
Treat an urge to act impulsively like a wave — observe it rise and fall without being swept away.
The STOP Skill: A DBT Technique for Crisis Moments - Protect at least one 2–4 hour deep work block daily
Reserve one uninterrupted block per day for your most cognitively demanding priority — at the same time each day.
Ideal Week Design - The 24-hour pause on non-essential purchases
Add a mandatory wait between wanting something and buying it.
The Latte Factor: Small Spending and the Cost of Habit - Oscillate deliberately between full engagement and full recovery
Treat disengagement between performances as a skill to develop, not an indulgence to manage.
The Ideal Performance State, Made Practical - Batch reactive and administrative tasks into designated windows
Cluster email, logistics, and low-stakes decisions into two or three scheduled windows instead of responding continuously.
The Time Audit - Set a hard stop time for all screens
Pick a recurring hour each week when every screen goes off — no negotiation.
The Digital Sabbath - Designate 2-3 scheduled checking windows per day
Check social and news feeds only during specific time-boxed windows — not on demand.
Defending Your Attention in the Attention Economy - Building in a spending pause
Insert a deliberate waiting period between wanting something and buying it.
Voluntary Simplicity, Made Practical
Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- Whenever my week gets crazy the first thing I axe is my one-on-ones, and I keep telling myself we’ll catch up later
- The craving to pour the drink, raid the fridge, send the message lands like it absolutely cannot wait
- My most demanding work needs a long uninterrupted stretch to even get going, but it never gets one
- When I want something I buy it right then, in the heat of the wanting
- I’m never fully on and never fully off
Related concerns
- Delay Between Requests
A short delay between the first and second requests strengthens the self-attribution update before you ask again.
Time the second ask: not too soon, not too distant
- Fighting The Urge To Buy Things
Pre-commit to a mandatory delay before any impulsive action.
Cooling-off and waiting rules
- How To Fight The Urge To Buy Things
Pre-commit to a mandatory delay before any impulsive action.
- How To Fight The Urge To Impulse Buy
Pre-commit to a mandatory delay before any impulsive action.
- How To Fight The Urge To Shop
Urges are waves — they rise, peak, and fall without action if you observe rather than fight them.
Surf the urge instead of fighting it
- How To Not Be So Impulsive
Pre-commit to a mandatory delay before any impulsive action.
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