Label the Emotion Worksheet: 10 Evidence-Based Coaching Practices

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Practices that may help

  1. Granular labeling: move from broad to specific emotion words
    Replace "stressed" or "bad" with the most specific emotion word you can find.
    Name It to Tame It: Affect Labeling in Practice
  2. Labeling Emotions in Negotiation, Made Practical
    Labeling — naming what the other person seems to be feeling before any argument or ask — reduces the emotional intensity of the feeling and makes the other party feel understood, which lowers their defenses. Affect-labeling research (Lieberman et al., 2007) shows that putting feelings into words reduces amygdala activity; Chris Voss built this into FBI hostage-negotiation practice. The technique is most powerful when the label is accurate and delivered without judgment.
  3. Daily emotion naming with the Feeling Wheel
    Each day, use the Feeling Wheel to name your emotional state with at least one layer of precision beyond the core word.
    The Feeling Wheel: Building Emotional Vocabulary
  4. Simple affect label: say the emotion word aloud or in writing
    When emotionally activated, say or write one clear emotion word — "fear," "anger," "grief" — before doing anything else.
    Name It to Tame It: Affect Labeling in Practice
  5. Expand your emotional range by studying the outer rings
    Spend 5 minutes with the outer ring of the Feeling Wheel weekly, learning the names of emotions you do not yet use.
    The Feeling Wheel: Building Emotional Vocabulary
  6. Affect Labeling: Name It to Tame It
    Affect labeling means describing what you feel in words ("I notice anxiety, tight in my chest"). Naming an emotion reliably dials down its intensity, and neuroimaging research links the act of labeling to reduced amygdala reactivity and increased prefrontal engagement. The effect is modest and works best as a regulation skill, not a cure for severe distress.
  7. Dual labeling: name both the emotion word and its body location
    Follow an emotion word with its body location: "Anxiety — tight chest and held breath."
    Name It to Tame It: Affect Labeling in Practice
  8. The Feeling Wheel: Building Emotional Vocabulary
    The Feeling Wheel, developed by counselor Gloria Willcox in 1982, is a visual tool that organizes emotions in concentric rings from six core emotions (glad, mad, sad, scared, disgusted, powerful) outward to increasingly specific nuanced feelings. It helps people name their emotional experience more precisely — a capacity research calls emotional granularity — which is associated with better emotional regulation and reduced distress.
  9. Name what you are feeling in writing, precisely
    Write the name of the emotion you are experiencing — not "bad" or "stressed," but the specific feeling.
    Journaling for Clarity
  10. R — Recognize what is happening
    Pause and name what is actually present: "Fear is here," "Anger is here," "Shame is here."
    RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice

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