Coaching practices for Motivational Interviewing When Burned Out

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  • There’s a point in the grind where my body is screaming to quit and my head agrees, and that’s exactly where I cave
  • Every so often I get this burst of fire
  • The thing I once loved most has become pure obligation
  • I’m completely unmotivated and I honestly can’t tell whether it’s that deep down I don’t believe I can pull this off, or that I just don’t care about it
  • Every time I lay out for someone all the reasons they should change, they just argue back for staying exactly as they are

Practices that may help

  1. Motivational Interviewing, Made Practical
    Motivational interviewing (MI) is a collaborative conversation style that strengthens a person’s own motivation for change by drawing out their reasons rather than supplying them. Meta-analyses find small-to-moderate effects across health behaviors — modest on average, but reliably better than confrontational or advice-giving styles, which can backfire.
  2. Use motivational self-talk for endurance and power tasks
    Pump yourself up verbally for tasks requiring effort, strength, or push through discomfort.
    Self-Talk Strategies, Made Practical
  3. Surf motivation waves rather than engineering baseline motivation
    Motivation is unreliable and peaks are temporary — use high-motivation moments to redesign prompts and ability, not just to behave better.
    The Fogg Behavior Model, Made Practical
  4. Recover intrinsic interest after it has been crowded out
    Intrinsic interest that has been undermined can often be partially recovered by removing the reward and reconnecting to original reasons.
    The Overjustification Effect: When Rewards Kill Motivation
  5. Diagnose whether you are stuck on expectancy or value
    Before trying to motivate yourself, identify which of the two factors is actually low.
    Expectancy-Value Theory: Why You Try (or Don’t)
  6. Evoke change talk instead of supplying it
    Ask questions that lead the person to voice their own reasons for changing.
    Motivational Interviewing, Made Practical
  7. Scale importance and confidence with the readiness ruler
    Ask “On a 0–10 scale, how ready are you?” — then ask why not lower.
    Motivational Interviewing, Made Practical
  8. Develop discrepancy between values and behavior
    Gently hold up the gap between what the person wants and what they’re doing.
    Motivational Interviewing, Made Practical
  9. Connect performance to purpose to sustain engagement under adversity
    Ground high-demand performance in a clear "why" that is stable when conditions are worst.
    The Ideal Performance State, Made Practical
  10. Share advice with permission (ask–offer–ask)
    Ask what they know, offer information with consent, then ask what they make of it.
    Motivational Interviewing, Made Practical

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