Coaching practices for Motivational Interviewing When Overwhelmed

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• There’s one moment that gets me every time
• Everything is genuinely awful right now and any talk of "what would better look like" feels like a slap
• There’s a point in the grind where my body is screaming to quit and my head agrees, and that’s exactly where I cave
• In the moment my mind goes blank and the only voice in my head is “you can’t handle this”
• I just know I went from fine to flooded and I couldn’t tell you how

Practices that may help

1. Motivational Interviewing, Made Practical
   Motivational interviewing (MI) is a collaborative conversation style that strengthens a person’s own motivation for change by drawing out their reasons rather than supplying them. Meta-analyses find small-to-moderate effects across health behaviors — modest on average, but reliably better than confrontational or advice-giving styles, which can backfire.
2. Use if-then planning to bypass depleted willpower
   Pre-decide responses to predictable obstacles so behavior runs on autopilot when self-control is low.
   Self-Regulation Failure and Ego Depletion
3. Coping Questions
   When things seem terrible, ask how the person is managing at all — acknowledging and excavating their resilience.
   Solution-Focused Brief Therapy: Building On What Works
4. Use motivational self-talk for endurance and power tasks
   Pump yourself up verbally for tasks requiring effort, strength, or push through discomfort.
   Self-Talk Strategies, Made Practical
5. Prepare coping self-talk in advance
   Script what you will say to yourself at the trigger, during the peak, and afterward — before you need it.
   Stress Inoculation Training
6. Map your stress response (conceptualization phase)
   Before you train coping, understand the full sequence: trigger → appraisal → body → behavior → consequence.
   Stress Inoculation Training
7. Name the resistance out loud
   Acknowledging push-back diffuses it; arguing with it amplifies it.
   Psychological Reactance: Working With the Push-Back Reflex
8. Scale importance and confidence with the readiness ruler
   Ask “On a 0–10 scale, how ready are you?” — then ask why not lower.
   Motivational Interviewing, Made Practical
9. Roll with resistance instead of fighting it
   When you meet a push-back, soften and reflect rather than argue.
   Motivational Interviewing, Made Practical
10. Develop discrepancy between values and behavior
    Gently hold up the gap between what the person wants and what they’re doing.
    Motivational Interviewing, Made Practical

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