Coaching practices for Movement to Regulate Emotions

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• When a big feeling crashes over me it’s like I become it
• When I’m wound up or stuck I just sit there marinating in the feeling, when every cell of me is itching to move
• I can analyze my feelings all day long, but it stays in my head and never actually moves through me
• My little one gets so wound up or so shut down that talking goes nowhere
• A feeling slams into me and I have no idea where it came from or why it’s this big

Practices that may help

1. Mindfulness of the current emotion
   Observe the emotion as a wave passing through — without judging it, feeding it, or running from it.
   DBT Emotion Regulation Skills, Made Practical
2. Move and use rhythm to shift state
   Walking, swaying, drumming, dancing — rhythmic, whole-body movement to discharge and reset arousal.
   The Body Keeps the Score, Honestly Explained
3. Locate the emotion in the body as well as naming it
   After naming an emotion on the Feeling Wheel, find where it lives in the body.
   The Feeling Wheel: Building Emotional Vocabulary
4. Use physical movement to shift the nervous system state
   When the child is stuck in a heightened state, movement can shift the physiological baseline faster than words.
   The Whole-Brain Child (Siegel & Bryson)
5. Understand the function of the emotion
   Every emotion evolved because it does something useful — learn what yours is trying to do.
   DBT Emotion Regulation Skills, Made Practical
6. Teach the four zones and what each one feels like
   Give children a shared map of internal states before asking them to regulate.
   Zones of Regulation (Leah Kuypers)
7. Simple affect label: say the emotion word aloud or in writing
   When emotionally activated, say or write one clear emotion word — "fear," "anger," "grief" — before doing anything else.
   Name It to Tame It: Affect Labeling in Practice
8. Situation selection
   Choose or avoid situations based on their likely emotional consequences — regulation before the event.
   Cognitive Reappraisal vs. Suppression, Made Practical
9. Name what the emotion is doing in your body
   Track the physical signs of the emotion as they move through — this alone reduces their intensity.
   The 90-Second Rule, Made Practical
10. Map your emotional landscape
    Identify which situations reliably produce which emotions for you — before you need to regulate them.
    Situation Selection, Made Practical

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