Coaching practices for Networking Through Informational Interviews

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  • The conversation goes great and then it just...
  • I want to message someone in a field I’m curious about, but I freeze on what to even say
  • I’ve got the conversation booked but I’m staring at a blank page of questions, worried I’ll waste their time asking things I could’ve Googled
  • I keep noticing that two people I know should really meet
  • Someone gave me real time and good advice, and weeks go by where I never circle back to tell them I actually used it

Practices that may help

  1. Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
    An informational interview is a low-stakes conversation with someone in a role or field you’re curious about — you ask questions, they share experience, and no job is on the table. Richard Bolles’s What Color Is Your Parachute? popularised this as a career research tool; the evidence is largely observational and practitioner, but it consistently shows that direct conversation with insiders produces better career decisions and unexpected referrals.
  2. Close every informational interview with one forward step
    End by asking: "Is there someone else you think I should talk to?"
    Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
  3. Request the conversation the right way
    A short, specific, no-pressure request gets far more responses than a vague networking ask.
    Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
  4. Prepare questions you genuinely don’t know the answer to
    Ask about the unwritten realities of the role — the things no job posting reveals.
    Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
  5. Become the connector in every room
    Make it your personal brand to know who should meet whom.
    Never Eat Alone: Building a Real Network
  6. Send a meaningful thank-you note
    Write a follow-up that references something specific and reports back on how you used their advice.
    Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
  7. Make cross-cluster introductions
    Introduce two people from different clusters who genuinely benefit from meeting.
    The Strength of Weak Ties
  8. Lead with generosity, not an agenda
    Enter every networking context asking what you can give, not what you can get.
    Never Eat Alone: Building a Real Network
  9. Map your network clusters
    Draw out the distinct social worlds you move in to find where your bridges are thin.
    The Strength of Weak Ties
  10. Design for serendipitous encounters
    Put yourself in environments where unexpected, cross-cluster contact is structurally likely.
    The Strength of Weak Ties

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