Coaching practices for Oral History Interview

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• The story I carry about my own life is fragmented and full of shame, and I want it written down properly somewhere outside my head
• I’ve got the conversation booked but I’m staring at a blank page of questions, worried I’ll waste their time asking things I could’ve Googled
• My whole life feels like a jumble of memories I’ve never laid out in one place
• The conversation goes great and then it just...
• The session is over and I’m carrying all this raw, half-formed experience, and I just need to say it out loud to people who’ll witness it without analyzing me

Practices that may help

1. Create a testimony document
   NET produces a written testimony of the person’s life — a document that the person and therapist co-author and that the person keeps.
   Narrative Exposure Therapy (NET): Weaving Trauma Into a Coherent Life Story
2. Prepare questions you genuinely don’t know the answer to
   Ask about the unwritten realities of the role — the things no job posting reveals.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
3. Draw the life line
   Draw a horizontal timeline and mark the key high points, low points, and turning points of your life.
   The Life Line Exercise
4. Close every informational interview with one forward step
   End by asking: "Is there someone else you think I should talk to?"
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
5. Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
   An informational interview is a low-stakes conversation with someone in a role or field you’re curious about — you ask questions, they share experience, and no job is on the table. Richard Bolles’s What Color Is Your Parachute? popularised this as a career research tool; the evidence is largely observational and practitioner, but it consistently shows that direct conversation with insiders produces better career decisions and unexpected referrals.
6. Share in a small group sharing circle on the same day
   Narrate your experience to others in a structured, non-interpretive circle within hours of the session.
   Holotropic Breathwork, Made Practical
7. Listen for what isn’t in the job description
   Focus on the texture of day-to-day work, not the official narrative.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
8. Landscape of Identity and Action Questions
   Use two question types to map both what the person DID (action) and what that reveals about who they ARE (identity).
   Narrative Therapy: Rewriting the Stories That Define You
9. Practise your story before you need it
   Have a clear, genuine two-minute narrative about who you are and where you’re headed.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
10. Motivational Interviewing, Made Practical
    Motivational interviewing (MI) is a collaborative conversation style that strengthens a person’s own motivation for change by drawing out their reasons rather than supplying them. Meta-analyses find small-to-moderate effects across health behaviors — modest on average, but reliably better than confrontational or advice-giving styles, which can backfire.

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