Coaching practices for Personal Baseline Goal Setting
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I’m always measuring myself against whoever’s ahead of me, and it’s crushing
- Every time I set goals they end up being what I think I’m supposed to want
- I’ve got this big goal way out there but no idea what I’m supposed to actually do this week to get closer, so it just sits there as a someday thing and I never move on it.
- No matter how much I improve, my goals are always pegged to beating other people
- I’m fired up about this new goal and certain this time is different, but I’ve started enough of these to know something in me usually derails it
Practices that may help
- Track performance goals against your own baseline, not others
Measure your progress against your personal standard, not against the competitor or the leaderboard.
Process vs. Outcome Goals in Sport and Performance - Excavate core values before writing goals
Identify what you most fundamentally care about before deciding what you want — or goals will be other people’s.
The Life Crafting Intervention: Scripting Your Future Self - Decompose distal goals into proximal action plans
Break long-term goals into short-term action plans with specific behavioral targets for this week.
Action Planning - Orient toward mastery rather than performance comparison
Set goals against your own past standard rather than against others.
Approach vs Avoidance Goals - Pre-mortem your personal goals
Apply the technique solo to a habit, project, or life decision.
The Pre-Mortem: Imagine It Already Failed - Set an absurdly small daily minimum
The minimum must be so small that saying no feels more embarrassing than just doing it.
Mini Habits, Made Practical - Set goals that build on your signature strengths
Design goals that let your top strengths be the primary vehicle rather than your weak spots.
VIA Character Strengths, Made Practical - Anchor each goal to a named, personal value
Make the goal an expression of a specific value so it stays motivating when difficulty peaks.
Self-Concordant Goals, Made Practical - Elaborate your hoped-for possible self
Build a detailed, sensory-rich mental picture of a concrete future version of yourself — not an abstract goal, but a person.
Possible Selves, Made Practical - Engineer your proximity (peer group)
“Who you spend time with is who you become” — treat your environment as a force, not a backdrop.
Tony Robbins’ Core Practices
Related concerns
- Strengths Based Goal Setting
Design goals that let your top strengths be the primary vehicle rather than your weak spots.
Set goals that build on your signature strengths
- Values Vs Goals
Return to your ranked values list every time a goal, project, or decision feels off-track.
Using your ranked values as a coaching north star
- Difference Between Values And Goals
Distinguish directions you live (values) from destinations you reach (goals).
Separate values from goals
- Externally Imposed Goals
Move externally set goals along the spectrum from "have to" toward "value".
Internalize goals you did not choose
- Goal Setting Self Esteem
Set goals, pursue them deliberately, and monitor whether your actions match your intentions.
The practice of living purposefully
- Identity Goals Vs Real Goals
Distinguish directions you live (values) from destinations you reach (goals).
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