Rain Tara Brock: 10 Evidence-Based Coaching Practices

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Try it here: list the feelings you're holding

Write the feelings you are holding, one per line, so you can see them before you move on.

Name the feelings you are holding, one line each.

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Practices that may help

  1. RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice
    RAIN is a four-step mindfulness practice developed by Tara Brach that stands for Recognize, Allow, Investigate, and Nurture. It is designed to meet difficult emotions — fear, shame, grief, anger — with mindful awareness rather than avoidance or overwhelm. The steps draw on mechanisms shared with acceptance-based therapies (ACT, MSC, MBCT); the RAIN sequence itself is practitioner-developed and not yet independently trialed as a protocol.
  2. After RAIN: resting in natural, open awareness
    After the four steps, rest in the open awareness that remains — not returning immediately to doing.
    RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice
  3. Radical Acceptance, Made Practical
    Radical acceptance, taught by Tara Brach and rooted in dialectical behavior therapy, means fully acknowledging reality as it is — including pain you cannot change — instead of fighting it. The point is not approval or giving up; it is to stop the extra suffering that resistance adds on top of the original pain. Acceptance-based skills are well-established in clinical practice (DBT, ACT); RAIN is a practitioner framework for applying them.
  4. Mini-RAIN: a 2-minute version for mid-day use
    Apply the four steps rapidly in 2 minutes to break emotional reactivity in the middle of a difficult moment.
    RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice
  5. N — Nurture with self-compassion
    Offer the part that is suffering what it most needs — care, acknowledgment, reassurance — as you would a dear friend.
    RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice
  6. Use absorbing activities to exit rumination
    Identify activities that fully capture your attention and deploy them as rumination interrupters.
    Rumination-Focused CBT, Made Practical
  7. I — Investigate with gentle, curious attention
    Bring kind curiosity to the emotion: Where is it in the body? What does it most need?
    RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice
  8. RAIN — Recognize what is happening
    Pause and name the emotion or experience present right now, without editing it.
    Radical Acceptance, Made Practical
  9. A — Allow the experience to be as it is
    Let what is present be here, without pushing it away, numbing it, or elaborating it.
    RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice
  10. Cultivate awareness as your primary creative tool
    Pay unusually close attention to what you notice, what you feel, and what catches you — these are the raw material.
    The Creative Act: Rick Rubin’s Approach to Making

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