Coaching practices for Self Affirmation Before Evaluation
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- Before any big evaluation my whole sense of worth narrows down to how I’ll perform in that one room, and if I bomb it I feel like I’m worthless as a person
- I’ve got a big evaluation looming and I can already feel myself bracing to defend my whole worth on it
- I keep telling myself "I’m great at this, I’ve got this" right before the thing I’m scared of, and it somehow makes me feel worse
- When I just hand someone my assessment they go passive and defensive, like I’m doing something to them
- Right before a tempting choice my head gets loud and defensive and I can’t even see my own real preferences clearly
Practices that may help
- Use value-based self-affirmation before threatening evaluations
Before a threatening evaluation, write for 10 minutes about a value that matters to you — unrelated to the domain being evaluated.
Power Posing Revisited - Write about a value that matters to you
Before a stressful or threatening situation, spend five minutes writing about a value that is genuinely important to you.
Self-Affirmation Theory, Made Practical - Use affirmation of values, not affirmation of ability
Affirm that you are a good person with important values — not that you are good at the specific thing you are anxious about.
Self-Affirmation Theory, Made Practical - Ask what the person already knows before offering your assessment
Ask the person to evaluate their own performance before giving yours.
The Feedback Sandwich: Why It Doesn’t Work and What to Do Instead - Affirm a core value before a high-stakes decision
Briefly reflecting on what matters most to you before a decision increases the chance you act consistently with it.
Identity Priming, Made Practical - Affirm before receiving critical feedback
Do a brief values reflection before reading a critical evaluation so you can take in the information rather than defend against it.
Self-Affirmation Theory, Made Practical - Affirm a different value after a failure
When you fail in one area, actively invest in a domain where you know you contribute.
Self-Affirmation Theory, Made Practical - Build self-knowledge from behavioral evidence
Ground your self-beliefs in specific past behaviors, not feelings or others’ opinions.
Self-Concept Clarity, Made Practical - Affirmations
Repeat chosen statements about who you are and what you’re committed to.
The Miracle Morning, Made Practical - Separate the act from the self
Rate your behaviors and outcomes — never your whole self — so one failure cannot indict your entire worth.
Unconditional Self-Acceptance
Related concerns
- How Self Affirmation Works
Affirm that you are a good person with important values — not that you are good at the specific thing you are anxious about.
Use affirmation of values, not affirmation of ability
- How To Use Self Affirmation
Repeat chosen statements about who you are and what you’re committed to.
Affirmations
- Self Affirmation Theory
Claude Steele’s self-affirmation theory holds that people protect their sense of moral adequacy by reflecting on values that are genuinely important to them — and that doing so reduces defensive reactions to threats. The evidence for reducing defensiveness and improving openness to threatening information is solid; claims that brief affirmations broadly raise achievement are more contested.
- Self Affirmation Theory At Work
Affirm that you are a good person with important values — not that you are good at the specific thing you are anxious about.
- Self Affirmation Theory In A New Job
Before a threatening evaluation, write for 10 minutes about a value that matters to you — unrelated to the domain being evaluated.
Use value-based self-affirmation before threatening evaluations
- Self Affirmation Theory When Starting Out
Before a threatening evaluation, write for 10 minutes about a value that matters to you — unrelated to the domain being evaluated.
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