Coaching practices for Should I Combine Ai Coaching and Human Therapy

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• I think I’m asking questions, but they’re really suggestions in disguise
• When I replay my coaching conversations I’m talking way more than the other person
• I only ever try this stuff when my kid is already in full meltdown, and that’s exactly when it comes out stiff and scripted and falls apart
• One part of me wants out, another part won’t let me, and they just war with each other on a loop
• When I coach people, almost everything out of my mouth is about their body

Practices that may help

1. Powerful open questions at every stage
   Ask questions that invite thinking, not ones that suggest answers — and ask more than you tell.
   The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical
2. Maintain a high question-to-statement ratio throughout GROW
   Ask questions far more often than you offer statements — the coachee’s thinking is the product.
   The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
3. Practice emotion coaching during low-stakes moments
   Build the skill in small moments so it’s available in the big ones.
   Emotion Coaching (John Gottman)
4. Working with Multiple Selves (Chair Work in CFT)
   Give voice to different internal parts — the critic, the anxious self, the compassionate self — to understand and change the dialogue.
   Compassion-Focused Therapy: Calming the Inner Critic
5. Rewrite internal-focus coaching cues as external-focus equivalents
   Audit your coaching language and convert body-focused instructions to effect-focused ones.
   External Focus of Attention, Made Practical
6. Generate Options before evaluating any
   Brainstorm all possible paths before judging — then the coachee, not the coach, narrows them.
   The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical
7. Ask "How can I help?" instead of assuming
   Telling people how you’ll help before finding out what kind of help they want is one of the most common management errors.
   The Coaching Habit: Seven Questions to Be More Coach-Like
8. Ask the workability question
   Ask "is what I am doing working?" — not "is it right?" but whether it is moving you toward the life you want.
   Emotional Agility, Made Practical
9. Build a concrete Will commitment
   Convert the chosen option into a specific next action with a date, and ask "what will you do?" not "what will you try?"
   The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical
10. Set the Goal — establish what the conversation is for
    Begin every coaching conversation by clarifying what the person wants to achieve in this session.
    The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People

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