Coaching practices for Coaching Option Generation
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- The moment the person I’m coaching names a couple of ideas, I jump in with "have you considered" and basically hand them my answer
- The instant a workable idea surfaces I grab it and we stop looking
- When I replay my coaching conversations I’m talking way more than the other person
- I think I’m asking questions, but they’re really suggestions in disguise
- I only ever coach in the rare formal sit-down and then default to firing off answers in every quick hallway exchange
Practices that may help
- Generate Options before evaluating any
Brainstorm all possible paths before judging — then the coachee, not the coach, narrows them.
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical - Generate Options — explore the full range of possibilities before committing
Invite the person to generate as many options as possible before evaluating any of them.
The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People - Maintain a high question-to-statement ratio throughout GROW
Ask questions far more often than you offer statements — the coachee’s thinking is the product.
The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People - Powerful open questions at every stage
Ask questions that invite thinking, not ones that suggest answers — and ask more than you tell.
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical - Use GROW in brief leadership conversations, not just formal coaching sessions
Apply GROW structure to 5-minute hallway conversations and 1-on-1 check-ins — not only to hour-long coaching sessions.
The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People - Build a concrete Will commitment
Convert the chosen option into a specific next action with a date, and ask "what will you do?" not "what will you try?"
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical - Obstacle anticipation before close
Before ending, ask "what could get in the way?" and pre-plan the response.
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical - Set the Goal — establish what the conversation is for
Begin every coaching conversation by clarifying what the person wants to achieve in this session.
The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People - Coach the person, not just the problem
The most important thing a manager can work on is the person’s capacity to handle future problems, not just today’s.
The Leader as Coach: A New Management Paradigm - Give performers choice within practice to support autonomy
Offer self-directed options in practice — which drill, how many reps, which cue — to enhance intrinsic motivation and learning.
External Focus of Attention, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Ai Therapy Limits What It Cannot Do
Ask questions far more often than you offer statements — the coachee’s thinking is the product.
Maintain a high question-to-statement ratio throughout GROW
- Approach Motivation Coaching
Establish exactly what the person wants to achieve — not the presenting topic, but the specific, owned outcome.
Clarify the Goal with precision
- Brief Coaching Conversations
In coaching conversations, ask "what could you do differently?" instead of "what went wrong?"
Replace performance review conversations with feedforward conversations
- Coaching Brainstorming
Brainstorm all possible paths before judging — then the coachee, not the coach, narrows them.
Generate Options before evaluating any
- Coaching Goal Setting
Establish exactly what the person wants to achieve — not the presenting topic, but the specific, owned outcome.
- Grow Coaching Questions
Ask questions far more often than you offer statements — the coachee’s thinking is the product.
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