Coaching practices for The Inner Game Quieting Self 1 as a Parent
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- I want my child to carry a solid sense of who they are even when I’m not there to remind them
- While I’m actually performing there’s this running commentary telling me I’m blowing it, and I take every word of it as fact in the moment
- The instant my mind has nothing to hold onto it floods with instructions and second-guessing
- My child can’t seem to name what they’re feeling
- One part of me wants out, another part won’t let me, and they just war with each other on a loop
Practices that may help
- The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
Timothy Gallwey’s Inner Game framework distinguishes Self 1 — the critical, instructing voice that interferes with performance — from Self 2, the body’s natural learning intelligence. Performance improves not by trying harder but by reducing Self 1’s interference so Self 2 can perform. The model is widely applied in coaching, athletics, and business; controlled-trial evidence is limited but the underlying mechanisms align with research on choking, explicit monitoring, and attentional redirection. - Build the child’s inner wealth narrative over time
Consistently reflect back who the child is becoming, not just what they’re doing.
The Nurtured Heart Approach (Howard Glasser) - Identify your Self 1 interference in real time
Notice when your inner critic is instructing, judging, or catastrophizing — and name it as Self 1.
The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1 - Give Self 2 a concrete focus anchor
Occupy Self 1 with a specific sensory observation task so it stops issuing unhelpful instructions.
The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1 - Build mindsight by reflecting inner experience
Describe your own inner experience in everyday conversation to build the child’s "mind-seeing" capacity.
The Whole-Brain Child (Siegel & Bryson) - Working with Multiple Selves (Chair Work in CFT)
Give voice to different internal parts — the critic, the anxious self, the compassionate self — to understand and change the dialogue.
Compassion-Focused Therapy: Calming the Inner Critic - Co-regulate by naming your own zone first
A parent who models zone awareness is a more effective co-regulator than one who only monitors the child.
Zones of Regulation (Leah Kuypers) - Use experiential recognition to highlight strengths in the moment
Catch the child demonstrating a virtue and name the virtue directly.
The Nurtured Heart Approach (Howard Glasser) - The inner critic dialogue
Give the inner critic a voice on paper and then respond — the goal is dialogue, not silencing.
Shadow Work - Use the performance-feedback loop without Self 1
Treat every outcome as information, not a verdict — adjust without judging.
The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
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