Coaching practices for The Six Pillars of Self Esteem as a Parent
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I want my child to carry a solid sense of who they are even when I’m not there to remind them
- I keep waiting for someone else to fix my situation or change so things get better
- My days are just whatever circumstances throw at me
- I keep swallowing what I actually want and going along to keep the peace, and every time I stay silent against my own wishes it quietly tells me my needs don’t matter
- There are parts of me
Practices that may help
- The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem, Made Practical
Nathaniel Branden defines self-esteem as the experience of being competent to meet life’s challenges and worthy of happiness, and argues it is built through six daily practices: living consciously, self-acceptance, self-responsibility, self-assertiveness, living purposefully, and personal integrity. Branden’s framework is clinically derived practitioner theory rather than trial-tested protocol, though each pillar overlaps with constructs that have their own research. - Build the child’s inner wealth narrative over time
Consistently reflect back who the child is becoming, not just what they’re doing.
The Nurtured Heart Approach (Howard Glasser) - The practice of self-responsibility
Own that you are the author of your choices, actions, and the fulfillment of your wants.
The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem, Made Practical - The practice of living purposefully
Set goals, pursue them deliberately, and monitor whether your actions match your intentions.
The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem, Made Practical - The practice of self-assertiveness
Honor your wants, needs, and values by expressing them in the world — appropriately and openly.
The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem, Made Practical - The practice of self-acceptance
Be for yourself — refuse to be your own adversary, even about the parts you want to change.
The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem, Made Practical - The practice of personal integrity
Keep your behavior aligned with your stated values — match your walk to your talk.
The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem, Made Practical - The practice of living consciously
Bring awareness to what you are doing and seeing, rather than acting on autopilot or avoidance.
The Six Pillars of Self-Esteem, Made Practical - Encourage specific contributions and efforts
"You set the table without being asked — that helped the whole family" is more powerful than "Good job."
Positive Discipline (Jane Nelsen) - Use experiential recognition to highlight strengths in the moment
Catch the child demonstrating a virtue and name the virtue directly.
The Nurtured Heart Approach (Howard Glasser)
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- The Six Pillars Of Self Esteem When Starting Out
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