Coaching practices for Trading Issues in Negotiation

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• We’re haggling issue by issue, splitting the difference on each one, and it’s leaving us both worse off
• There are several things on the table here, and some matter way more to me than others
• The whole thing has collapsed down to one number and we’re just staring each other down over price, so whatever I gain they lose
• The deal is closed and fine, but I keep negotiating in the dark
• We’re stuck head-to-head over a single number, both digging in on what we’re demanding, and I keep sensing that if I understood what’s actually driving their number

Practices that may help

1. Trade across issues where each side has different priorities
   Give the counterpart what they care most about; get what you care most about — logrolling is only possible when interests differ.
   Interests vs. Positions: The Core of Integrative Negotiation
2. Logroll by trading issues of unequal importance
   Concede on what matters less to you in exchange for gains on what matters more.
   Expanding the Pie: Negotiation Beyond Splitting the Difference
3. Add issues to expand the pie
   Bring more variables in — timing, scope, future work — so there’s more to trade.
   Win-Win Thinking: Expanding the Pie
4. Run a negotiation debrief to learn what value was left on the table
   After closing, compare priorities with the other side to see the trades you both missed.
   Expanding the Pie: Negotiation Beyond Splitting the Difference
5. Probe for interests, not positions
   Ask why the other side wants what they say they want before responding to what they say.
   Expanding the Pie: Negotiation Beyond Splitting the Difference
6. Separate the people from the problem
   Address relationship concerns and substantive issues in different registers — treating people well and the problem hard.
   Principled Negotiation, Made Practical
7. Trade across differing priorities
   Give on what you value less to get what you value more — and have them do the same.
   Win-Win Thinking: Expanding the Pie
8. Expand the ZOPA by adding issues to the negotiation
   When you’re stuck on a single issue, adding more issues often creates room for trades that satisfy both sides.
   ZOPA: The Zone of Possible Agreement
9. Distinguish substantive, procedural, and psychological interests
   The interest behind a position is often not about the money or the terms — it may be about face, fairness, or control.
   Interests vs. Positions: The Core of Integrative Negotiation
10. Share information to unlock value
    Reveal interests (not your bottom line) so both sides can find the better deal.
    Win-Win Thinking: Expanding the Pie

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