Why Do I Always Make Wrong Decisions? 10 Coaching Practices to Try

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Practices that may help

1. Treat your decision as more final than it is
   Mentally close off the "undo" option to stop rumination and increase satisfaction.
   Choice Overload, Made Practical
2. Judge decisions by the process, not the result
   A good decision that produces a bad outcome is still a good decision.
   Expected Value Thinking: Deciding Under Uncertainty
3. Classify decisions by reversibility and stakes
   Sort decisions into low-stakes/high-stakes and reversible/irreversible before deciding.
   Decision Journaling: Learning to Decide Better Over Time
4. Overgeneralization
   Draw a sweeping conclusion from one or a few negative events.
   Cognitive Distortions: The Thinking Errors Behind Anxiety and Depression
5. Evaluate decisions by process, not outcome
   Judge a decision by the quality of the reasoning at the time, not by what happened.
   Hindsight Bias: Why Everything Seems Obvious in Retrospect
6. Separate the quality of the decision from the outcome
   A good decision can produce a bad outcome, and a bad decision can produce a good outcome — do not confuse them.
   Thinking in Bets
7. Always ask what happens next after the obvious effect
   For any decision, trace at least two steps of consequences before committing.
   Mental Models: Charlie Munger’s Latticework Approach
8. Slow down for high-stakes, irreversible decisions
   Match deliberation to the cost of being wrong: spend System 2 where reversal is hard.
   Thinking, Fast and Slow, Made Usable
9. Slow down on one-way doors
   For irreversible decisions, invest in deliberation proportional to the downside — not to your confidence.
   The Two-Way Door
10. Exit obligations gracefully and early
    When you realize a commitment was a mistake, exit cleanly before deeper entrenchment — not later.
    Essentialism: The Art of Eliminating the Non-Essential

Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I deliberately leave my decisions open so I can back out later, thinking that protects me→
• I made a call that turned out badly and now I feel like an idiot for it→
• I agonize for days over tiny choices I could undo in a second, then rush the big ones I can’t take back→
• One thing goes wrong and it instantly becomes a life sentence→
• A choice I made blew up and I’m tearing into myself→

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