Coaching für die Herausforderungen, die Menschen wirklich mitbringen (page 114)

Stimulus Control for Sleep · Stimulus Control, Made Practical · Apply stimulus control to the sleep environment + 7 more

Negative Visualization for Gratitude: The Stoic Path to Appreciation · Contemplate your health as a gift · Practice gratitude for the full arc, not just the pleasant parts + 7 more

The one-task rule · Adopt a strict single-tasking protocol · Monotasking, Made Practical + 7 more

Build a weekly reflection ritual so the cycle runs regularly · Observe from multiple angles before drawing conclusions · Structured Reflection: Kolb’s Learning Cycle in Practice + 7 more

Hyperbolic Discounting — Why Future You Always Gets the Short End · Name your present bias before you buy · Apply all three horizons explicitly + 7 more

Introduce variability once basic schemas are formed · Extract a transferable principle, not just a description · Situated practice in authentic contexts + 7 more

Sort by urgent vs important · Separate urgent from important with a dedicated triage window · Sort tasks by the importance-urgency matrix + 7 more

Choose vulnerability on purpose · Use reciprocal disclosure to strengthen stress-buffering relationships · Share a past struggle that is now resolved + 7 more

Take a warm bath 1–2 hours before bed · Evening yoga routine for sleep · Anchor the wind-down with a consistent starting cue + 7 more

Separate the planning session from the execution day · Plan from roles and goals, not from tasks · Identify and schedule big rocks at the start of each week + 7 more

Sort the situation into controllables and uncontrollables · The control sort · Identify the single most important lever you actually have + 7 more

Audit where your time actually goes · Savor time to make it feel more abundant · Practice attention to time’s texture, not just its quantity + 7 more

The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep · Build a wind-down buffer before bed · Declare "shutdown complete" with a verbal phrase + 7 more

WOOP: Wish, Outcome, Obstacle, Plan · Name a specific, feasible wish · Run WOOP as a quick repeatable routine + 7 more

The 10-10-10 Rule · Calibrate the time horizons to the actual decision · Apply all three horizons explicitly + 7 more

Add a deliberate delay before discretionary purchases · The 24-hour pause on non-essential purchases · Apply a 24-hour (or 72-hour) rule to non-essential purchases + 7 more

The 4 Percent Rule, Made Practical · Choose an asset allocation that matches the withdrawal phase · Discipline your inflation adjustments + 7 more

The REM nap (60–90 minutes) · Choose nap length by sleep stage goal · The power nap (10–20 minutes) + 7 more

Treat a lapse as data, not failure · Use response cost — losing tokens for target behavior failures — with care · A time-boxed reset, not a permanent ban + 7 more

Distinguish acceptance from approval · The practice of self-acceptance · Moving from other-validation to self-validation + 7 more

Take a validated Big Five measure · Rate your current position in each domain · Rate each life domain with brutal honesty, not aspiration + 7 more

Run an accusation audit before difficult asks · The accusation audit · Analyze your log for patterns and surprises + 7 more

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Made Practical · Radical Acceptance, Made Practical · Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical + 7 more

Cognitive Defusion (ACT), Made Practical · Defusion from Anxious Thoughts · Spot defusion moments in ordinary daily reactions + 7 more

Take their perspective accurately · Take the perspective of someone without what you have · Write from the voice of an unconditionally kind friend + 7 more

Weigh action regret against inaction regret · Apply the regret minimization frame · Use the 10-year horizon as a regret test + 7 more

Start before you feel ready · Minimum viable version of the behavior · Choose the smallest workable next step + 7 more

Assess expertise level before deciding how much guidance to provide · Remove information that can be inferred once the concept is known · Provide contingent support: more help when needed, less when not + 7 more

The Adjacent Possible, Made Practical · Map your current edge: what is one step away from where you are? · Exaptation: look for how a tool or skill in one context could serve a different one + 7 more

Adding sensation to the count · Raising the difficulty — counting forward and backward · Choosing between counting and open breath awareness + 7 more

Invite an adversarial collaborator · Use Collaborating when the relationship and the solution both matter · Collaborating (assertive and cooperative) + 7 more

Affect Labeling: Name It to Tame It · Name what you are feeling in writing, precisely · Simple affect label: say the emotion word aloud or in writing + 7 more

Affect Labeling: Name It to Tame It · Name It to Tame It: Affect Labeling in Practice · Labeling Emotions in Negotiation, Made Practical + 7 more

Affect Forecasting: Why You Mispredicted How You’d Feel · Ask people who’ve been there instead of imagining it · Plan for hedonic adaptation in your goals + 7 more

Affect Forecasting: Why You Mispredicted How You’d Feel · Distinguish cognitive optimism bias from strategic misrepresentation · Treat forecasting accuracy as a skill that improves with practice + 7 more

Savoring the present moment · Capture the aha the instant it arrives · Watching the becoming-link: how identity solidifies into suffering + 7 more

Use "none" when "some" is harder · Draw one clear, binary line · Know when a bright line backfires + 7 more

Amor Fati: Loving What Happens · Practice gratitude for the full arc, not just the pleasant parts · Set a daily amor fati intention + 7 more

Psychological Safety in Teams · Psychological Safety, Made Practical · Respond immediately and visibly to safety violations + 7 more

Analogical Reasoning · Use multiple analogies for the same problem · Use progressive alignment: start with similar cases and move to more distant ones + 7 more

Run an annual values-spending alignment review · Run a quarterly budget review to reset the allocations · Hold a monthly budget date + 7 more

Audit and reduce anti-mattering inputs · Mattering: Feeling Like You Count · Notice how you already matter + 7 more

Anticipatory savoring · Savoring: Getting More From the Good · Savor experiences before they happen through anticipation + 7 more

Repair specifically when you were the one who caused harm · Offer concrete repair · The Art of Apology + 7 more

Lazarus Appraisal Theory, Made Practical · Reappraise the meaning of the stressor · Replace suppression with upstream reappraisal + 7 more

The impermanence gratitude turn · Impermanence awareness practice · Use gratitude to slow the treadmill + 7 more

Reappraise discomfort as a signal of engagement · Arousal Reappraisal: "I’m Excited, Not Anxious" · Replace suppression with upstream reappraisal + 7 more

Match your routine’s arousal level to the task demand · De-activation Strategies for Over-Arousal · Activation Strategies for Under-Arousal + 7 more

The Artist Date, Made Practical · The Artist’s Way, Made Practical · Pair pages with weekly solitary play (the artist date) + 7 more

Generous Interpretation · Recognize genuine exceptions — when malice is actually likely · Generate the charitable explanation + 7 more

Argument Mapping · Separate facts from assumptions explicitly · Surface the hidden premises + 7 more

Epicurean Philosophy: Practical Happiness · Practising ataraxia: removing sources of anxiety · Radical Acceptance, Made Practical + 7 more

Defending Your Attention in the Attention Economy · The Attention Economy: Reclaiming Your Focus from Systems Designed to Capture It · State your intention before picking up a device + 7 more

Get "being away" psychological distance · Take low-stimulation breaks instead of high-stimulation ones · Protect genuine recovery time between focus windows + 7 more

Attention Training Technique (ATT), Made Practical · Selective attention to individual sounds · Attention training technique (ATT) + 7 more

Catch the attribution error · Personalization and self-blame · Default to attributional charity for others’ behavior + 7 more

Authority · Use peripheral cues when elaboration is low · Influence through persuasion, not positional power + 7 more

Cognitive restructuring · Catch automatic thoughts in the moment · Examine the evidence for and against + 7 more

Automate savings and investments before the money hits checking · Automate the 20% before the rest of your money arrives · Automate the transfer so it happens without a decision + 7 more

Single-task with full sensory attention as a beginner · Detached mindfulness: observe thoughts without engaging · Catch automatic thoughts in the moment + 7 more

Audit your day for autotelic activities · Single-task with full sensory attention as a beginner · Choose autotelic (intrinsically rewarding) activities + 7 more

Track recurring domains where you consistently avoid the unfamiliar · Use avoidance orientation as a diagnostic signal · Understand the cycle you’re both in -- not just what your partner does + 7 more

Seek out awe as a broadening and self-transcending emotion · Ask what a specific other person would do · Return from proportion to action + 7 more

Use awe to expand your felt sense of time · Use awe to expand perceived time · Practice attention to time’s texture, not just its quantity + 7 more

Seek out awe as a broadening and self-transcending emotion · Use awe to expand your felt sense of time · Use awe to expand perceived time + 7 more

Generate a balanced alternative thought · Examine the evidence for and against the thought · Generate a balanced alternative thought + 7 more

Audit the week for time perspective balance · Time Perspective Therapy · Diagnose your dominant time perspective + 7 more

Anchoring Bias in Negotiation and Judgment · Anchor on the base rate before adding inside-view details · Base-Rate Neglect: Why We Ignore the Odds + 7 more

Base-Rate Neglect: Why We Ignore the Odds · Ask the base rate before evaluating the specific case · Anchor on the base rate before adding inside-view details + 7 more

Base-Rate Neglect: Why We Ignore the Odds · Reference Class Forecasting · Anchor on the base rate before adding inside-view details + 7 more

Base-Rate Neglect: Why We Ignore the Odds · Ask the base rate before evaluating the specific case · Anchor on the base rate before adding inside-view details + 7 more

Bayesian Thinking: How to Update Beliefs Rationally · Update beliefs by degrees, not wholesale · Update beliefs incrementally, not all at once + 7 more

Design the bedroom as a single-purpose sleep cue · Make the bedroom cool and dark · Keep the bedroom at 18–20°C for sleep + 7 more

Keep the bedroom at 18–20°C for sleep · Cool the bedroom to 18–20°C (65–68°F) · Temperature and Sleep: The Thermoregulation Science + 7 more

Anchor the wind-down with a consistent starting cue · The Wind-Down Routine: Engineering Your Path to Sleep · Build a wind-down buffer before bed + 7 more

Track only what you genuinely intend to influence · Review the data to adjust the system · Habit Tracking + 7 more

Behavioral Experiments: Testing Beliefs in the Real World · Behavioral experiments · Running the Experiment and Observing Results + 7 more

Benefit-Finding: Locating Meaning and Growth in Adversity · Benefit-Finding in Adversity, Made Practical · Use positive reappraisal and benefit-finding intentionally + 7 more

Awe and Well-Being, Made Practical · Seek out awe as a broadening and self-transcending emotion · Awe and the Small Self + 7 more

Nap Protocol: Timing, Length, and the Nap Wheel · Use Mednick’s nap wheel to target stage composition · Choose nap length by sleep stage goal + 7 more

Bids for Connection: The Small Moments That Make or Break Relationships · Prioritize bid awareness during high-stress periods · Make your own bids more legible + 7 more

Interleaving: Mix It Up to Learn It Better · Convert blocked practice into interleaved practice · Interleave different topics during study or work + 7 more

Blood-Sugar Stability for Steadier Mood and Energy · Glycemic Variability and Mood, Made Practical · Steady your blood sugar across the day + 7 more

Don’t over-rely on blue-light glasses · The Digital Sunset · Set a screen curfew 60-90 minutes before sleep + 7 more

Locate the urge in your body · The slow, systematic sweep · Cool down a hot temptation by reframing it + 7 more

Temperature and Sleep: The Thermoregulation Science · Use body temperature to assist sleep onset · Keep the bedroom at 18–20°C for sleep + 7 more

Nasal-only breathing during light-to-moderate exercise · Light, slow, deep breathing at rest · Use HRV as real-time feedback during sessions + 7 more

Boredom and Creativity: Why Your Best Ideas Need Idle Time · Journal during boring tasks · Build boredom tolerance gradually + 7 more

Reduce emotional vulnerability (PLEASE) · Pendulation: moving between states gently · The Body Keeps the Score, Honestly Explained + 7 more

Treat every act as an offering — however mundane · Ahimsa: Non-Violence as a Daily Practice · Integrating mudita into a full brahma-vihara sequence + 7 more

Use box breathing before — not only during — stress · Pre-performance heart-focused breathing · Set your posture before high-stakes moments + 7 more

Build comfort with breath holds · The physiological sigh (double inhale, long exhale) · Apply box breathing mid-task under mild physical load + 7 more

Exception Finding: When Is the Problem Already Less Severe? · Separate the person from the problem · Rephrase the problem as a "How might we…?" question + 7 more

Broaden-and-Build, Made Practical · Cultivate curiosity as a daily emotional practice · Narrow the scope: a smaller problem space is a richer one + 7 more

The Thought Record: CBT’s Core Self-Examination Tool · Keep a written PDSA log so the cycle has memory · Review thought records to find cognitive patterns + 7 more

Build buffer blocks into the ideal week · Schedule buffers as first-class commitments · Deliberately underschedule your day to prevent expansion cascade + 7 more

Light, slow, deep breathing at rest · Reduced-volume breathing to raise CO2 tolerance · Box Breathing, Made Practical + 7 more

Invest freed time in activities with documented well-being returns · Outsource tasks you dislike to buy time affluence · Name your present bias before you buy + 7 more

Prevent the caffeine crash with smaller, timed doses · Dose caffeine by need, not by habit · Strategic Caffeine Use + 7 more

Set a caffeine cutoff time based on your half-life · Time caffeine around its half-life · Enforce a hard caffeine cutoff time + 7 more