Coaching für die Herausforderungen, die Menschen wirklich mitbringen (page 184)

Celebrate growth, not just goal attainment · Engage fully in the present rather than deferring satisfaction to the goal · Self-Concordant Goals, Made Practical + 7 more

Do the hardest task first · The ABCDE prioritization method · Reserve the best hours for the most demanding creative work + 7 more

Drop the "eight glasses" rule and read your body · Use thirst as the primary guide — not a fixed daily volume target · Know your personal sleep need — not the population average + 7 more

The 5-4-3-2-1 countdown · The 5 Second Rule, Made Practical · Respect the fill-order every single day — rocks before sand + 7 more

Build an exposure hierarchy · Build a fear hierarchy · Use the count for courage to speak or share + 7 more

Do It Tomorrow, Made Practical · Default new requests to tomorrow · Change the default option in your environment to the healthy choice + 7 more

Do It Tomorrow, Made Practical · Default new requests to tomorrow · Close with a resolve for tomorrow + 7 more

Less but better · Actively cut or delegate the trivial 80% · Multiply time and resource investment in the vital few + 7 more

Use Mednick’s nap wheel to target stage composition · Make napping a consistent daily practice · The Power Nap: Science and Practice + 7 more

Charge your phone outside the bedroom permanently · Set your phone to alarm-only mode after 9pm · The Phone-Free Bedroom + 7 more

Everyday integration — using commute and errand walks as practice · Treat every act as an offering — however mundane · Use constraint-based drills to isolate one component + 7 more

Prosocial Spending: Why Giving Boosts Happiness · Apply the "value per dollar" test to major purchases · Give experiences, not objects + 7 more

Select backup reinforcers that are genuinely motivating — not what should motivate you · Know the three conditions that produce overjustification · Use escalating rewards to maintain motivation across time + 7 more

Grade activity difficulty upward gradually · Connect activities to values, not just pleasure · Anchor activity to personal values + 7 more

Align on core values — where they are shared and where they differ · Make core values operational, not decorative · Mapping shared and divergent values in a relationship + 7 more

Deliberate toward the virtuous mean · Finding the virtuous mean in a specific situation · Live according to nature + 7 more

Document experiences as you complete them · Create a testimony document · Write a structured autobiography by life chapter + 7 more

Use documentary and large-scale art to trigger awe · Sharing awe with others · Micro-awe in the ordinary + 7 more

Therapeutic Letters · Re-Authoring the Alternative Story · Finding Unique Outcomes (Exceptions to the Problem Story) + 7 more

Watch alcohol and caffeine timing · Aerobic exercise for low mood and depression · Engage when sadness says withdraw + 7 more

Mattering: Feeling Like You Count · Notice how you already matter · Make someone else feel they matter — specifically + 7 more

Enforce a hard caffeine cutoff time · Manage caffeine to offset debt without deepening it · Set a caffeine cutoff time based on your half-life + 7 more

Humming, chanting, and vocal toning · Hum, tone, or chant to activate the social engagement system · Vagal Tone, Honestly Explained + 7 more

Manage caffeine timing within your eating window · Enforce a hard caffeine cutoff time · Delay the first caffeine dose 90–120 minutes after waking + 7 more

The metabolic claims (calibrated) · Use zone 2 to train fat oxidation as a metabolic skill · Cold Exposure, Without the Hype + 7 more

The Latte Factor: Small Spending and the Cost of Habit · Cut costs mercilessly on things you don’t value · Cut ruthlessly in categories that serve no value + 7 more

Nutrition and Mood: The Gut-Brain Link, Honestly Explained · Shift toward a whole-food eating pattern · The Mediterranean Diet for Mood and Wellbeing + 7 more

Decide on a regulation strategy based on what the facts actually show · Check the Facts, Made Practical · Check the facts and opposite action + 7 more

Grayscale Phone Mode and Behavioral Design · Enable grayscale display mode on your phone · Use the phone stack at social meals + 7 more

Grit: Passion and Perseverance, Honestly Assessed · Choose consistency over intensity · Recover from setbacks without quitting the goal + 7 more

Using TM for stress and blood pressure · Regular tai chi for blood pressure reduction · Coherent breathing for blood pressure support + 7 more

The Science of Napping · Make napping a consistent daily practice · The Power Nap: Science and Practice + 7 more

Find the meaning within — not despite — your suffering · Entering the present moment · Anchor discomfort to a stated value + 7 more

Self-Talk Strategies, Made Practical · Monitor your self-talk patterns to identify what to change · Prepare "if-then" self-talk scripts for predictable pressure moments + 7 more

Use sleep hygiene as the foundation, not the cure · Sleep Hygiene That Actually Moves the Needle · Set a restricted sleep window equal to your actual sleep time + 7 more

Compound Movements: The Foundation of Strength Training · The deadlift for full posterior-chain strength · Pair overload with specificity to the movement you want to improve + 7 more

Find a handle word or image · Check whether your judgment is tracking affect, not the target attribute · Check the facts first + 7 more

Walking for Creativity · Matching pace to the mental state you want · Walk for cognitive performance and creativity + 7 more

Add load to walks (rucking) for strength and caloric benefit · Walk briskly rather than just accumulating steps · Prioritize vigorous exercise snacks over mild ones for cardiovascular benefit + 7 more

Separate solvable worries from unsolvable ones · Productive Problem-Solving vs. Worry · Worry Time: Containing Anxiety With Scheduled Worry + 7 more

Study of Dogen’s writings alongside practice · Shikantaza: Just Sitting · Extending shikantaza to daily activity + 7 more

Study of Dogen’s writings alongside practice · Shikantaza: Just Sitting · Silent illumination: the quality of awake stillness + 7 more

Orient action toward the common good · Connect the work to a purpose beyond yourself · Check your motivation before the act + 7 more

Omission Bias — Why Doing Nothing Feels Safer Than Acting · Identify that inaction is also a choice with moral weight · Audit the cost of inaction explicitly + 7 more

Audit the cost of inaction explicitly · Omission Bias — Why Doing Nothing Feels Safer Than Acting · Identify that inaction is also a choice with moral weight + 7 more

Bridge from signature strengths to purpose · Let adversity reorder your priorities · Highlight: choose one priority + 7 more

Track recurring domains where you consistently avoid the unfamiliar · Use avoidance orientation as a diagnostic signal · Check whether you’re demanding an unfair ambiguity premium + 7 more

Map your team’s genius coverage · Build branches that are MECE at every level · Build a team whose combined strengths cover all four domains + 7 more

Defer heavily to base rates when entering a domain where you lack experience · Identify the right reference class for your situation · Reference Class Forecasting + 7 more

Interleaved pattern practice · Conduct premortems on your past recognition failures · Build pattern libraries through deliberate case exposure + 7 more

Restrict the behavior to a specific context only · Map your locus of control by domain · Use instructional self-talk for precision skill tasks + 7 more

Use forced analogy to generate unexpected solutions · Borrow the conventions of a different field and apply them to yours · Transfer solutions across domains by mapping the structure of the problem + 7 more

Develop second-tier, systems-level thinking · Identify your center of gravity on the spiral · Distinguish healthy from unhealthy expressions of each level + 7 more

Manage the alarm phase — don’t abort the adaptation by resting too long · Managing DOMS and the repeated-bout effect · Use scheduled Do Not Disturb windows for focus and sleep + 7 more

Managing DOMS and the repeated-bout effect · Eccentric Training, Made Practical · Eccentric overload using bands or weight releasers + 7 more

Don’t criticize, condemn, or complain · Let go of others’ opinions of you · Open with genuine appreciation before raising the concern + 7 more

Don't Break the Chain: The Streak Method · The Seinfeld Strategy: Don’t Break the Chain · Plan the recovery before the chain breaks + 7 more

Anti-charity stakes · Use an anti-charity donation as your stake · Create psychological safety around missing a stretch target + 7 more

Only put tasks on the board that you’ve explicitly decided to do · Set up a simple To Do / Doing / Done board · Personal Kanban, Made Practical + 7 more

Think in scenarios and stories, not task lists · Organize actions by context · The ABCDE prioritization method + 7 more

Leverage Points · Identify high-leverage points rather than effort-intensive low-leverage ones · Systems Thinking for Personal Productivity + 7 more

Stocks and Flows · Use flow rates as leading indicators; stocks as lagging outcomes · Identify the stocks before diagnosing a problem + 7 more

Systems Thinking for Personal Productivity · Surface and test the mental models driving behavior · Rank intervention options by structural depth before choosing + 7 more

The Similarity-Attraction Effect (Donn Byrne) · Surface genuine shared values and experiences early · Distinguish attitude similarity from need complementarity + 7 more

Build the flywheel through consistent small pushes · Find and amplify reinforcing (virtuous) feedback loops · Pursue mastery as an asymptote + 7 more

Set a screen cutoff time · Curb stimulating content before bed · Replace phone scrolling with a physical book at bedtime + 7 more

Apply door-in-the-face for prosocial or charitable asks · Keep the same person making both requests · Give to a named, visible person + 7 more

Dopamine Detox, Honestly Explained · Target high-stimulation inputs, not "dopamine" · Protect your rewards from overexposure + 7 more

Dopamine Detox, Honestly Explained · Target high-stimulation inputs, not "dopamine" · Reintroduce slow, effortful rewards + 7 more

Dopamine Detox, Honestly Explained · Target high-stimulation inputs, not "dopamine" · Know the contraindications before attempting FMD + 7 more

Dopamine Detox, Honestly Explained · Target high-stimulation inputs, not "dopamine" · Know the contraindications before attempting FMD + 7 more

Reactivate dormant ties · The Strength of Weak Ties · Maintain weak ties for information and opportunity + 7 more

Dorsal Vagal Shutdown: The Collapse State and How to Emerge · The Freeze Response and How to Thaw It · Recognize your freeze signature + 7 more

Dorsal Vagal Shutdown: The Collapse State and How to Emerge · Brief cold exposure · Dorsal vagal lift: moving out of shutdown + 7 more

Small glimpses, many times — the micro-dose delivery model · The body sweep — observing without reacting · Keep each dose short — leave before flooding + 7 more

Titration in Somatic Practice, Made Practical · Keep each dose short — leave before flooding · Track completion signals after each titrated dose + 7 more

Use a single, undirected object-gaze to invite daydreaming · Jyoti dharana — holding the inner light · Bahir trataka — external candle gaze + 7 more

Understand why exhale-dominance is the active ingredient · The physiological sigh (double inhale, long exhale) · Nadi shodhana (alternate nostril breathing) + 7 more

The physiological sigh (double inhale, long exhale) · Nadi shodhana (alternate nostril breathing) · The physiological sigh + 7 more

Understand why exhale-dominance is the active ingredient · Nadi shodhana (alternate nostril breathing) · The physiological sigh (double inhale, long exhale) + 7 more

Understand why exhale-dominance is the active ingredient · The physiological sigh (double inhale, long exhale) · Learn the foundational kapalbhati stroke + 7 more

Examine your assumptions, not just your actions · Shorten your PDSA cycles until feedback is near-daily · Run the loop until it is smooth + 7 more

Examine your assumptions, not just your actions · Shorten your PDSA cycles until feedback is near-daily · Identify the reinforcing and balancing loops + 7 more

Recognize and respect the ethical limits of foot-in-the-door · Change the default to change the outcome · Design decisions to be reversible where possible + 7 more

Structure multi-step choices to prevent dropping out mid-process · Give yourself an artificial head start · Use double progression: increase reps, then increase weight + 7 more

Apply the double-standard check: would I accept this reasoning if it pointed the other way? · Recognize when contrast is being used on you · Check the Facts, Made Practical + 7 more

Working with doubt (vicikiccha) · Working with restlessness-and-worry (uddhacca-kukkucca) · Balance torpor and agitation + 7 more

Dorsal vagal lift: moving out of shutdown · Use co-regulation — another settled nervous system — as a primary resource · Map your state (ventral, sympathetic, dorsal) + 7 more

Look for decisions with asymmetric upside — large potential gain, small defined loss · Protect the downside before chasing the upside · Assess risk and benefit on separate scales before comparing + 7 more

Trace second-order effects of inaction · Explore the implications and consequences of a position · Change who gets what information when + 7 more

Trace second-order effects of inaction · Change who gets what information when · Install a fast feedback loop to make consequences visible + 7 more

The Downward Arrow: Uncovering the Core Beliefs Behind Distress · Choose the intervention points with the most leverage · Mapping the twelve-link chain to a real episode of suffering + 7 more

Downward arrow for interpreting others’ behavior · The Downward Arrow: Uncovering the Core Beliefs Behind Distress · The basic downward arrow chain + 7 more

Identify your natural grieving style and adjust for it · Deliberately engage loss-oriented work · The Dual Process Model of Grief, Made Practical + 7 more

Behavioral Chain Analysis: The DBT Method for Understanding Problem Behaviors · Use differential reinforcement to increase desired behavior while reducing unwanted behavior · Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Skills, Made Practical + 7 more

Timed drafting sprints · First-draft permission: produce something deliberately bad on purpose · Quantity Over Quality: How More Drafts Produce Better Work + 7 more

Identify the drag domain — the one pulling everything else down · Track the mood–wandering connection · Grounding through physical contact with surfaces + 7 more

Use colors and images to encode categories and relationships · Draw or sketch the inner system visually · Redraw your mind map from memory as a retrieval practice + 7 more

Draw it yourself instead of copying · Redraw your mind map from memory as a retrieval practice · System mapping before explanation + 7 more

Calibrate dread against statistical frequency · Compare the feared risk to risks you already accept · Convert emotional reactions to statistical questions + 7 more