Coaching für die Herausforderungen, die Menschen wirklich mitbringen (page 28)

Share wins with someone who will genuinely celebrate with you · Negotiate the big wins instead of clipping coupons · Identify and act on lead measures + 7 more

Use more distal external focus for greater performance benefits · Direct attention to the effect of the movement, not the movement itself · External Focus of Attention, Made Practical + 7 more

Use more distal external focus for greater performance benefits · Direct attention to the effect of the movement, not the movement itself · External Focus of Attention, Made Practical + 7 more

Essentialism: The Art of Eliminating the Non-Essential · Essentialism, Made Practical · Identify the single most important output for today + 7 more

Choose one domain to move toward the bullseye this week · Map your Hot Spots to see where you invest your life · Run two burners at high for a defined sprint + 7 more

Practise opportunity awareness: stay open to unplanned paths · Seeing the eight factors as a mutually supporting system, not a checklist · Choose one domain to move toward the bullseye this week + 7 more

Move from blame to contribution · Solution-Focused Brief Therapy: Building On What Works · Separate the person from the problem + 7 more

Use more distal external focus for greater performance benefits · Direct attention to the effect of the movement, not the movement itself · Use instructional self-talk for precision skill tasks + 7 more

Choose one domain to move toward the bullseye this week · Direct focus to controllables only, especially under pressure · Set one organization-wide priority per quarter + 7 more

Filter goals through the controllability test · Direct focus to controllables only, especially under pressure · Use more distal external focus for greater performance benefits + 7 more

Build a weekly reflection ritual so the cycle runs regularly · Structure work in 90-minute cycles · Run a quarterly focus review to refresh the lists + 7 more

Reduce: convert main notes to questions in the cue column · Schedule spaced review sessions using your Cornell summaries · Calibrate review depth to your current context + 7 more

Conduct a brief review immediately after each hyperfocus session · Build a weekly reflection ritual so the cycle runs regularly · Post-session reflection + 7 more

The 25/5 cycle · Handling external interruptions · Single-tasking the sprint + 7 more

Offer office hours to concentrate collaboration · Make time before the day fills · Practice attention to time’s texture, not just its quantity + 7 more

Keep an attention capture list during hyperfocus · Capture what resonates — not everything · Hyperfocus: Directing Intense Attention to What Matters Most + 7 more

Secular mantra — a neutral word or phrase · Using a short word in prayer · The return — working with a wandering mind + 7 more

Distinguish applying from sustaining attention · Choiceless awareness — resting without an object · Use the breath as the primary anchor + 7 more

Sequencing focused attention and open monitoring · Expanding to panoramic awareness · Choiceless awareness — resting without an object + 7 more

Attention training technique (ATT) · Selective attention to individual sounds · Expanding to panoramic awareness + 7 more

Open Monitoring Meditation, Made Practical · Sequencing focused attention and open monitoring · Expanding to panoramic awareness + 7 more

Sharpening perception and blocking distraction · Sharpen your senses to deepen the experience · Linger in positive experiences (savoring) + 7 more

Receiving and holding a first koan · Carrying the koan through daily life · Presenting understanding to a teacher (sanzen) + 7 more

Read one section at a time with full attention · Generate questions before reading to drive deep processing · Deliberate strategy selection + 7 more

Multi-sensory grounding as extended orienting · Track and communicate sensory sensitivity changes during SSP · Sharpen your senses to deepen the experience + 7 more

Focused vs Diffuse Thinking · Focus intensely, then deliberately release · Use routine transitions as deliberate insight prompts + 7 more

Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical · Ask the felt sense what it needs · Distinguish applying from sustaining attention + 7 more

Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical · Use more distal external focus for greater performance benefits · Ask "What do we need to do to move forward?" + 7 more

Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical · Distinguish applying from sustaining attention · Resonate and check + 7 more

Resonate and check · Use resonance breathing as a pre-performance preparation · Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical + 7 more

Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical · Distinguish applying from sustaining attention · Use more distal external focus for greater performance benefits + 7 more

Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical · Distinguish applying from sustaining attention · Resonate and check + 7 more

Understand the action line — the threshold where behavior fires · Surf motivation waves rather than engineering baseline motivation · The Fogg Behavior Model, Made Practical + 7 more

Tiny Habits, Made Practical · Celebrating Small Wins · Celebrate immediately to wire it in + 7 more

Protect fondness actively during and after conflict · Use fierce self-compassion to stay in hard conversations · Maintain positive tone even during disagreement + 7 more

Increase dietary magnesium through food first · Eat a small handful of nuts and seeds daily · Magnesium and Anxiety, Made Practical + 7 more

Increase dietary magnesium through food first · Anti-Inflammatory Diet for Mood, Made Practical · Eat fatty fish two to three times per week + 7 more

Conduct post-project debriefs to contribute to the class data · Calibrate expectations for how long novelty will sustain motivation · Update your forecast incrementally as new evidence arrives + 7 more

Lead from the strategic thinking domain — absorb and analyze information · Practice foresight and stewardship · Cathedral thinking + 7 more

Forest Bathing (Shinrin-Yoku), Honestly Explained · Practice forest bathing (shinrin-yoku) for stress recovery · Make it a recurring ritual + 7 more

Forming: provide clarity before connection · Diagnose which stage your team is in · Performing: step back and protect the conditions + 7 more

Identify your dominant leadership strengths — and lead from them · Lead from the relationship building domain — hold the team together · The 4 Disciplines of Execution (4DX) + 7 more

Identify your dominant leadership strengths — and lead from them · Lead from the relationship building domain — hold the team together · Strengths-Based Leadership, Made Practical + 7 more

The Four Horsemen: Gottman's Warning Signs of Relationship Breakdown · Use the horsemen as an early-warning system, not only a post-mortem · Recognize and replace the Four Horsemen + 7 more

Outsource personal and business tasks with a virtual assistant · Apply Parkinson’s Law — compress deadlines to compress work · Save admin tasks for your cognitive trough + 7 more

Worden’s Tasks of Mourning, Made Practical · Task 2: Work through the pain of grief · Task 1: Accept the full reality of the loss + 7 more

Zones of Regulation (Leah Kuypers) · Determine whether your zone requires activation or relaxation · The Zone of Optimal Functioning: Hanin’s IZOF Model + 7 more

Identify where your self-esteem is contingent · Normalize impostor feelings through selective disclosure · Build authentic rather than defensive self-esteem + 7 more

Frame uncertain work as learning · Manage the learner’s frustration during difficulty · The Framing Effect + 7 more

Use humor as a therapeutic distance-maker · The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique · Use grounding before anxiety peaks, not after + 7 more

Use love as an experiential meaning anchor · Find the attitudinal value in what cannot be changed · Frankl’s Three Sources of Meaning + 7 more

Cultivate micro-moments of connection (positivity resonance) · Create micro-moments of connection · Access positive emotion during adversity, not after + 7 more

Discipline Equals Freedom: Jocko Willink's Framework · Exercise the last human freedom · Replace commands with genuine choices + 7 more

Prioritize consistency over intensity · Use the broken-speech threshold for hard intervals · Use conversational pace to build exercise tolerance safely + 7 more

Fresh Start Framing: Engineering Your Own Clean Slate · Beware the false start: a clean slate without a system changes nothing · Use fresh start framing after identity-threatening failures + 7 more

Beware the false start: a clean slate without a system changes nothing · Fresh Start Framing: Engineering Your Own Clean Slate · Use personal landmarks, not just calendar ones + 7 more

Identify high-leverage points rather than effort-intensive low-leverage ones · Map your key stocks and flows · Systems Thinking for Personal Productivity + 7 more

Qigong shaking practice · Shaking and trembling to discharge activation · Allow the body to complete its response + 7 more

The Power of Full Engagement, Made Practical · Oscillate deliberately between full engagement and full recovery · The 4 Disciplines of Execution (4DX) + 7 more

Build the flexibility to switch styles · Identify your dominant leadership strengths — and lead from them · Distribute leadership rather than centralizing it + 7 more

Manage your own emotional state before responding · Plan behavior management strategies in advance · Behavioral Chain Analysis: The DBT Method for Understanding Problem Behaviors + 7 more

Distinguish functional from dysfunctional procrastination · Make the long-term consequences of procrastinating feel immediate · Review the list to prevent permanent deferral + 7 more

Catch the attribution error · Default to attributional charity for others’ behavior · Learn the three attribution dimensions + 7 more

Task Aversion and Procrastination · Practice self-compassion as an active procrastination buffer · Make the long-term consequences of procrastinating feel immediate + 7 more

Ask "What do we need to do to move forward?" · Filter decisions through "what would future me thank me for?" · The seventh-generation test for decisions + 7 more

Ground transcendental future thinking in present action · Schedule present-hedonistic time deliberately · Frame advancement-oriented goals as gains to approach + 7 more

Invoke the possible self during setbacks · Plan how to repair each worst case · Pair the pre-mortem with a clear success vision + 7 more

Connect the present-self to the future-self who will face the consequences · Make the long-term consequences of procrastinating feel immediate · Self-imposed deadlines + 7 more

Journal to your future self weekly · Future Self Continuity, Made Practical · Vividly visualize your future self in concrete detail + 7 more

Calculate the opportunity cost of a recurring habit · Points and reward systems · Schedule mini habits at fixed times rather than flexible "whenever" + 7 more

Relationship Maintenance Behaviors · Practice active-constructive responding (relationships pillar) · The Magic Relationship Ratio: Gottman's 5-to-1 Principle + 7 more

Strengths-Based Leadership, Made Practical · Lead from the relationship building domain — hold the team together · Lead from the executing domain — deliver on goals consistently + 7 more

Gamification of Habits · Points and reward systems · Fade the mechanics toward intrinsic motivation + 7 more

Focusing and the Felt Sense, Made Practical · External Focus of Attention, Made Practical · Use more distal external focus for greater performance benefits + 7 more

Allow multiple active interests without forcing a hierarchy · Develop interest, don’t just wait to find it · Sample widely before committing to a niche + 7 more

Watch for the accidental diminisher patterns in yourself · Distribute leadership rather than centralizing it · Multipliers: How Leaders Amplify the Intelligence Around Them + 7 more

Sequence creative tasks before reactive tasks each day · Assign project phases to genius-matched people · Plan from roles and goals, not from tasks + 7 more

Give proportionally to stay in a state of abundance · Give small amounts more often · Build reciprocity reserves over time, not just in the moment + 7 more

GIVE: DBT’s Skill for Preserving Relationships During Difficult Conversations · GIVE: maintaining the relationship while getting what you need · Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Skills, Made Practical + 7 more

Slow diaphragmatic yoga breathing · Yoga for Stress: What the Research Shows · Sun salutation micro-practice + 7 more

Lead with generosity, not an agenda · Never Eat Alone: Building a Real Network · Follow up every meaningful interaction + 7 more

Working Memory: How Your Brain Holds Thoughts in Play · Train task-switching to reduce cognitive overhead · Chunk information before asking working memory to use it + 7 more

Reappraise physiological arousal as activation, not anxiety · Arousal Reappraisal: "I’m Excited, Not Anxious" · Reappraise anxiety as excitement before high-stakes performance + 7 more

Lead with generosity, not an agenda · Become the connector in every room · Make cross-cluster introductions + 7 more

Receiving gifts · Acts of service · Discovering and acting on each other’s languages + 7 more

Lead with generosity, not an agenda · Give before you take · Build the network before you need it + 7 more

Invite clients or reports to contribute insight to your approach · Set clear, single-point accountability · Extreme Ownership, Made Practical + 7 more

Be otherish, not selfless · Give and Take: The Giver Advantage · Chunk your helping into dedicated time + 7 more

Offer office hours to concentrate collaboration · Apply Parkinson’s Law — compress deadlines to compress work · Chunk your helping into dedicated time + 7 more

Give and Take: The Giver Advantage · Screen for takers early · Chunk your helping into dedicated time + 7 more

Lead with generosity, not an agenda · Give before you take · Fill your social calendar intentionally + 7 more

Give recognition generously and specifically · Give recognition that names the person’s specific effort, not just the outcome · Use SBI for positive feedback, not just correction + 7 more

Learn the three attribution dimensions · Personalization and self-blame · Make attributions specific, not global + 7 more

Understand why magnesium helps with stress reactivity, not just baseline anxiety · Magnesium and Anxiety, Made Practical · Take magnesium glycinate in the evening + 7 more

Goal Systems Theory: How Goals Work Together (and Against Each Other) · Surface goal conflicts before they undermine each other · Protect your sense of autonomy while pursuing the goal + 7 more

Psychological Flexibility, Made Practical · Gauge your current flexibility level · Treat flexibility as an ongoing practice, not a state to achieve + 7 more

The Goal Gradient Effect: Why Getting Closer Makes You Faster · Make the endpoint concrete and countable · Set midpoint milestones to break the middle slump + 7 more

Build a three-level goal hierarchy · Organize effort under one top-level goal · Review your goal hierarchy to ensure lower goals serve higher ones + 7 more

Strengthen goal commitment through the means you choose · Goal Systems Theory: How Goals Work Together (and Against Each Other) · Three-goals prioritization: objective, relationship, or self-respect? + 7 more

Audit why you are pursuing each goal · Diagnose whether you are stuck on expectancy or value · Define success by growth and contribution, not scorekeeping + 7 more