Examine two conflicting views in context before deciding

When two views of the same thing conflict, name what each one is looking at before deciding which one is right.

Pourquoi ça marche

Bowman describes Wilber’s model as including partial truths that are examined in context with other disciplines and wisdom traditions (2014, p. 35). This page applies that to a disagreement: when two views conflict, naming what each one is looking at is a way of examining them in context before any verdict. Separating the aspect from the verdict lets both views stand long enough to be examined together.

Comment faire

  1. Write each view in one line, as the person holding it would state it.
  2. Next to each, write the aspect it is looking at, such as what is felt or what can be counted. Keep the labels short.
  3. Ask whether the two views are measuring the same thing. If they are not, write each one as true of its own aspect.
  4. Only then ask which aspect matters more for the decision in front of you, and write that decision down separately from the disagreement.

Données probantes

Bowman describes the framework as including partial truths examined in context (2014, p. 35). Applying that to a conflict between two views is this page’s practice. No study has tested whether it resolves disagreements. (anecdotal)

Bowman documents inconsistent use of the inside-outside and interior-exterior terms (pp. 31, 54), so the labels you give each view may not match Wilber’s own labels. Some disagreements are about facts, and this method does not settle those. The mechanism is described in the source but not demonstrated here.

Sources

Erreur fréquente

Using “both are valid” to avoid a decision. The practice separates the aspects so that you can decide; it does not decide for you.

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