Transactional Analysis: Ego-State and Transactions Coaching
Transactional Analysis, developed by Eric Berne, is the basis of ego-state and transactions coaching, which uses his model of three ego states, Parent, Adult and Child, to look at how exchanges between people unfold. A coach helps you notice which state your replies come from and where the same exchange keeps repeating. No randomised trial or meta-analysis of the approach turned up. The outcome studies found in this search are few, and further studies in the approach's own journal were not read for this page.
What it is
Berne proposed that a person can speak and act from three ego states: a Parent state of borrowed rules and judgements, an Adult state of reasoning in the present, and a Child state of feelings and reactions from earlier life. Each exchange between two people is a sequence of replies, and the approach looks at which state each reply comes from.
Berne also described patterns that recur across exchanges, which he called games and life scripts. In coaching the work is usually shorter and more practical than in therapy: you look at a repeated exchange, name the states involved, and choose a reply that comes from the state you want to use.
Where it comes from
Eric Berne first set out the approach in a 1958 paper on group therapy (Berne, 1958).
Later writers applied the model to organisations and to executive coaching (Martinko & Luthans, 1981; Krausz, 2005).
The principles underneath
Three ego states
Parent, Adult and Child describe the state a reply comes from at a given moment. They are a way of noticing what is happening, not a fixed type of person.
Exchanges have a shape
Berne's account separates exchanges that run smoothly from those that cross, and it treats crossed exchanges as the place where conversations stall or escalate.
Repeated patterns
Games and life scripts describe patterns that recur across conversations and relationships. Noticing the pattern is the first step to changing your part in it.
Choose from the Adult state
The aim is not to remove any state. It is to notice which one is speaking and choose a reply from the state that fits the situation.
How a session runs
- Describe one exchange that went badly or keeps happening, as a short scene: who said what, and what came next.
- Notice how you felt during it, and which state your replies seemed to come from. Name that state in plain words.
- Look at the other person's replies, and which state they seemed to be speaking from. Consider what each reply was responding to.
- Agree one different reply you would like to try, and the state of mind that would make it easier to say.
- At the next session, review what you tried and what happened.
When it tends to fit
- You keep having the same argument with a partner, a parent or a colleague, and it ends in the same place each time.
- You notice that you go quiet or sharp in a conversation and cannot say what set it off.
- You want to understand how you respond under pressure, so you can choose a different reply next time.
What the research shows
Evidence: Practitioner tradition — little or no outcome research
No randomised trial or meta-analysis of this approach turned up in the literature searched. The outcome studies found in this search are few. Two effectiveness studies by Novey (1999; 2002) and a 1981 study of organisational effectiveness by Martinko and Luthans assess the approach, and all three appeared in the field's own journal. Two more studies in the same journal, on an introductory course (Spencer, 1977) and on marital relationships (Greene, 1988), also appeared in the search. They were identified from their titles and were not read for this page, so their designs and findings are not summarised here. Their titles indicate that they measure effectiveness, but their designs and findings are not summarised here. Krausz (2005) is titled as concerning executive coaching under the model. The approach was first described for group therapy (Berne, 1958), and the coaching literature found here is smaller than the therapy literature.
Where the evidence is thin: The field's own journal may be peer-reviewed, but the designs, samples and results of these studies are not set out here. The grade reflects how little controlled outcome research was found, not a verdict on whether the approach works.
Sources
- Berne, E. (1958). Transactional Analysis: A New and Effective Method of Group Therapy. American Journal of Psychotherapy, 12(4), 735–743.
- Martinko, M. J., & Luthans, F. (1981). An Analysis of the Effectiveness of Transactional Analysis in Improving Organizational Effectiveness. Transactional Analysis Journal, 11(3), 229–235.
- Novey, T. B. (1999). The Effectiveness of Transactional Analysis. Transactional Analysis Journal, 29(1), 18–30.
- Novey, T. B. (2002). Measuring the Effectiveness of Transactional Analysis: An International Study. Transactional Analysis Journal, 32(1), 8–24.
- Krausz, R. R. (2005). Transactional Executive Coaching. Transactional Analysis Journal, 35(4), 367–373.
- Spencer, G. M. (1977). Effectiveness of an Introductory Course in Transactional Analysis. Transactional Analysis Bulletin, 7(4), 346–349.
- Greene, G. (1988). Analysis of Research on the Effectiveness of Transactional Analysis for Improving Marital Relationships: Toward Close Encounters of the Single Kind. Transactional Analysis Journal, 18(3), 238–248.
Where it stops
The approach was developed partly for psychotherapy, and its model of childhood states can touch on family history. A coaching conversation is not built for that work. If the pattern is tied to trauma, abuse or long-standing distress, a qualified therapist is better placed to help.
Labels such as Parent, Adult and Child can become a way of judging yourself or another person. The model is for noticing what happens in a conversation, and the research found here does not show that it predicts how someone will behave.
Naming another person's state during a conflict can feel like an accusation. Start by using the model on your own replies.
Practices for this approach
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- Reflective Listening: The Carl Rogers Method
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