Contemplate death and impermanence with the nine-point reflection
Reflect that death is certain, that its time is uncertain, and that at death only what you have cultivated helps — so that you stop postponing what matters.
Why it works
Geshe Dhargyey presents the nine-part sequence as deriving from Tsongkhapa’s guideline instructions: three root facts — death is certain, its time is uncertain, and at the time of death nothing but Dharma practice helps — each supported by three reasons and each ending in a decision. Its stated purpose is to stop wasting time, loosen attachment to fleeting things and sustain practice. Psychology suggests the manner of reflection matters: brief reminders of death (“mortality salience”) tend to increase defensiveness, while Cozzolino and colleagues found that a “death reflection” exercise modelled on accounts of near-death experiences led highly extrinsically oriented participants toward less greedy choices — a modern manipulation, not the lamrim practice, but a reason to do this reflectively rather than as a jolt.
How to do it
- Check first. If you are grieving a recent death, if thoughts of death already come uninvited, or if you feel low or shaky today, set this aside: keep your eyes open, feel your feet on the floor, do something ordinary, and talk to a teacher or a clinician (see the meditation-related-challenges page). If thoughts of death ever turn into thoughts of harming yourself, contact a crisis line or emergency services.
- If you feel steady, sit with eyes open or half-open for a short session, and stop whenever it feels heavy rather than clarifying.
- Death is certain: reflect in your own words that everyone who has been born has died, that your lifespan cannot be extended indefinitely, and that it is shortening with each day.
- The time is uncertain: reflect that there is no fixed lifespan, that the body is fragile, and that the conditions for staying alive are fewer than the conditions that can end it.
- Only what you have cultivated helps: reflect that possessions, relatives and even the body cannot be taken along — in the tradition, only one’s practice and the qualities of mind it has built.
- Let each root end in a decision, as the tradition does: what do I want to stop postponing?
- Close by returning to something ordinary — make tea, walk, speak to someone — and carry the decision, not the heaviness.
Evidence
The nine-part sequence and the six benefits of mindfulness of death are given by Geshe Dhargyey; Tsongkhapa’s Foundation of All Qualities compresses the topic into one stanza. Burke, Martens and Faucher’s meta-analysis of 277 experiments found that reminders of death increase defence of one’s worldview and self-esteem; Cozzolino and colleagues distinguished a reflective “death reflection” manipulation that produced less greedy, more intrinsic behaviour in highly extrinsic participants. Lindahl and colleagues document that contemplative practice can produce fear and distress for some practitioners, and Britton argues that more practice is not always better. (mechanistic)
The experiments tested brief laboratory manipulations with modern participants, not the lamrim meditation, and the Lindahl study is qualitative and not specific to death contemplation. Traditional texts can describe death vividly and frame it within rebirth; this is not a practice to use on grief or on thoughts of death that already feel intrusive — see the meditation-related-challenges page, and contact a crisis line if thoughts of death become thoughts of harming yourself.
Sources
- Geshe Ngawang Dhargyey. The Benefits and Actual Method of Being Mindful of Death (the nine-part sequence). Study Buddhism (Berzin Archives).
- Tsongkhapa Lobzang Drakpa. The Foundation of All Qualities (a fourteen-stanza summary of the stages of the path), trans. Adam Pearcey (2018). Lotsawa House.
- Cozzolino, P. J., Staples, A. D., Meyers, L. S., & Samboceti, J. (2004). Greed, death, and values: From terror management to transcendence management theory. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 30(3), 278–292.
- Burke, B. L., Martens, A., & Faucher, E. H. (2010). Two decades of terror management theory: A meta-analysis of mortality salience research. Personality and Social Psychology Review, 14(2), 155–195.
- Lindahl, J. R., Fisher, N. E., Cooper, D. J., Rosen, R. K., & Britton, W. B. (2017). The varieties of contemplative experience: A mixed-methods study of meditation-related challenges in Western Buddhists. PLOS ONE, 12(5), e0176239. About this work
- Britton, W. B. (2019). Can mindfulness be too much of a good thing? The value of a middle way. Current Opinion in Psychology, 28, 159–165.
Common mistake
Pushing for fear or dread as proof the meditation is working. Geshe Dhargyey says the sign of real understanding is the opposite of ordinary fear of death — concern about dying without having used one’s life well, not dread of death itself. Heaviness that lingers is a signal to stop and ground, not to go deeper.
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More practices for Lamrim: The Stages of the Path and the Three Scopes
- Alternate analytical (checking) meditation with placement meditation
Reason your way into a lamrim topic until it is felt, then rest on that understanding without more thinking — and alternate the two.
- Begin where the lamrim begins: relying on a spiritual teacher, with care
Treat finding and learning from a qualified teacher as the root of the path — and take the time the texts themselves ask for to choose well.
- Contemplate the precious human life: the freedoms and advantages
Go through the conditions that make this life an opportunity — what you are free from and what you have — until you feel how rare and useful it is.
- Reflect on karma: cause and effect in your own actions
Trace one recent action from its intention to its effects on others and on your own habits, and decide what you want to repeat and what to stop.
- Cultivate renunciation in the tradition’s sense: the determination to be free
See clearly that the pleasures of cyclic existence never finally satisfy, and let that turn into a wish for freedom — not into contempt for life.
- Reflect on the four thoughts that turn the mind (the outer preliminaries)
Precious human birth, impermanence, karma and the suffering of saṃsāra, recited and reflected on together so the mind turns toward practice.
- Set your motivation with the three scopes
Before a session, check honestly which scope you are practising from — this life, a good future, liberation, or awakening for all — and let it widen one step.
- Keep a daily lamrim rhythm: one topic in depth, the whole path at a glance
Work through the outline one topic at a time over weeks, while briefly reviewing the whole path each day so no stage is lost.
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