Identify the main internal obstacle that stands between you and the wish
Ask honestly: what is the primary thing in me — not outside me — that is most likely to block this wish?
Why it works
Oettingen’s research specifies that the obstacle in mental contrasting should be internal — an emotion, a behavior, a belief, a habit — rather than purely external. Internal obstacles are modifiable; external obstacles are often not. The process of identifying the internal obstacle shifts attribution from circumstances to self, making action possible. It also activates the problem-solving system: naming the obstacle recruits the cognitive resources that can address it.
How to do it
- Ask: "What is inside me — a feeling, a thought, a habit, a lack — that is most likely to prevent me from achieving this wish?"
- Write the obstacle in a single, honest sentence. Do not use external factors as the primary obstacle.
- If only external obstacles come to mind, ask: "What would I need to do or feel to navigate that external obstacle?" — the answer usually surfaces the internal one.
- Choose the single most important obstacle, not a list.
Evidence
Internal obstacle focus is a specified element of MCII; Oettingen and colleagues distinguish between obstacle-focused and resource-focused mental contrasting with different motivational profiles. The Oettingen, Pak & Schnetter (2001) experiments establish that it is the act of confronting the obstacle against the wish — not either element alone — that produces the goal commitment, which is why naming the internal obstacle is load-bearing rather than optional. (observational)
The requirement for internal obstacles is specified by Oettingen but the evidence comparing internal-only to mixed internal-external obstacle identification is limited.
Sources
- Oettingen (2012), "Future thought and behaviour change," European Review of Social Psychology
- Oettingen, G., Pak, H.-J., & Schnetter, K. (2001). Self-regulation of goal setting: Turning free fantasies about the future into binding goals. Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, 80(5), 736–753.
- Oettingen, G. (2012). Future thought and behaviour change. European Review of Social Psychology, 23(1), 1–63.
Common mistake
Listing only external obstacles (lack of time, other people’s behavior) which makes the plan step a problem of circumstances rather than a behavioral commitment — this is the most common way WOOP stays intellectual rather than motivational.
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More practices for Mental Contrasting and WOOP
- Name a specific, feasible wish
Start WOOP with a wish that is genuinely meaningful to you and realistically achievable — not too easy, not out of reach.
- Vividly imagine the best outcome of achieving your wish
Spend 2–3 minutes imagining in full sensory detail how it will feel when the wish is fulfilled.
- Form an if-then plan linking the obstacle to a specific response
"If [obstacle occurs], then I will [specific action]" — this plan is what converts mental contrasting into behavior change.
- Run the full WOOP sequence — not just parts of it
WOOP works as a sequence; running only the wish and outcome steps (pure positive visualization) is not WOOP and may be counterproductive.
- Apply mini-WOOP to daily choices and temptations
Run a 2-minute WOOP for small decisions — "What do I want? What’s the best outcome? What will get in the way? What’s my plan?" — before acting on impulse.
- Distinguish obstacle-confronting from free-dreaming and indulging
Mental contrasting is different from both pure positive thinking and pure negative worry — it requires holding both futures in mind simultaneously.
Related concepts
- WOOP: Wish, Outcome, Obstacle, Plan
The four steps, the science of mental contrasting, and why fantasy alone fails
- Action Planning
Translating intentions into action through specific, situational plans
- SMART Goals That Actually Move
Each letter, the mechanism behind it, and where the checklist quietly limits you