Name a specific, feasible wish

Start WOOP with a wish that is genuinely meaningful to you and realistically achievable — not too easy, not out of reach.

Why it works

The wish must be personally meaningful enough to generate genuine motivational investment, and feasible enough that the person believes effort can close the gap. Wishes that are too abstract ("be happier") provide no actionable target; wishes that feel impossible produce defensive reactions rather than motivation. The specificity calibration determines whether the rest of the WOOP process generates momentum or is dismissed before it starts.

How to do it

1. Write your wish in one sentence, specific enough to know when it is achieved.
2. Assess honesty: Is this actually your wish, or someone else’s expectation? If it is not genuinely yours, the process will not generate real motivation.
3. Assess feasibility: On a 0–10 scale, how likely do you think it is that you can achieve this with effort? Below 4, the wish may need to be scaled or the obstacles examined first.
4. Refine until the wish is both genuinely meaningful and genuinely possible.

Evidence

The specificity and personal relevance of the wish are moderated in WOOP research; Oettingen and colleagues find feasibility moderates the benefit of mental contrasting, with the largest effects for high-feasibility wishes. (observational)

Feasibility effects suggest that mental contrasting works best when there is real hope; it is not equally effective for all wishes regardless of perceived possibility.

Sources

• Oettingen & Mayer (2002), "The motivating function of thinking about the future," Journal of Personality and Social Psychology

Common mistake

Starting with a wish you think you should have rather than one you actually hold — the emotional energy required for the rest of WOOP does not arise from obligation, only from genuine desire.