Respect the buddha in others: the practice of Bodhisattva Never Disparaging

Meet each person, including difficult ones, with the words “I deeply respect you… you will become a buddha.”

Why it works

Chapter 20 of the Lotus Sūtra tells of a monk who did not specialise in reciting sūtras. Whenever he saw anyone, he said: “I deeply respect you. I dare not belittle you… because all of you practice the bodhisattva path, and will become buddhas.” When people reviled him and threw sticks and stones, he moved out of reach and called out the same words from a distance. The chapter makes concrete the sūtra’s central claim, set out in chapter 2, that there is only one vehicle and that all who hear even a verse will become buddhas. Groups in this tradition speak of it as buddha-nature. Risshō Kōsei-kai calls revering buddha nature in oneself and others the core of its practice. Seeing every person as a future buddha changes how one meets them before anything is said.

How to do it

  1. In the morning, read or recall the bodhisattva’s words from chapter 20.
  2. During the day, silently offer them to people you pass, and especially to someone you find difficult: “you will become a buddha.”
  3. Notice the moment contempt or dismissal arises toward someone, and let the words meet it.
  4. Where someone is hostile, follow the bodhisattva’s own example: keep your distance and keep your respect. Respect does not require staying within reach of harm.
  5. In the evening, recall one person you found it hard to respect, and chant for them by name.

Evidence

The account of Sadāparibhūta (Never Disparaging) is Lotus Sūtra chapter 20, and the one-vehicle teaching is chapter 2, both in the BDK translation. The sūtra also shows the daughter of the nāga king attaining buddhahood in chapter 12, although the text has her first take on a male body. Nichiren Shū describes cultivating “our Buddha nature, inherent in all beings,” and Risshō Kōsei-kai makes revering buddha nature the core of its practice. This is textual and practitioner support. (anecdotal)

The sūtra does not use the later technical term “buddha-nature”; that connection is drawn by the traditions that read it. The practice is not a rule to stay with people who harm you, and the bodhisattva in the story moves away from those who attack him. Not studied in research.

Sources

Common mistake

Using “they will become a buddha” to skip over what someone has actually done. The bodhisattva honours what the person can become while still stepping back from the sticks and stones.

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