Coaching practices for Behavioral Praise Technique
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- I tell my kid "good job" all day and it doesn’t seem to change anything
- I praise my kid constantly
- When someone does something genuinely great I tend to file it away to mention at their review, and by the time it comes around it’s gone cold and vague
- When someone does something genuinely great I just toss off a "nice work" and move on, and it barely registers
- I tell my kid "good job, you’re so smart" constantly, and now they freeze up at anything hard and keep looking to me to confirm they’re okay
Practices that may help
- Use descriptive praise instead of generic approval
Tell the child exactly what they did right so they know what to repeat.
Triple P Parenting (Matthew Sanders) - Encourage specific contributions and efforts
"You set the table without being asked — that helped the whole family" is more powerful than "Good job."
Positive Discipline (Jane Nelsen) - One-minute praisings: specific, immediate, genuine
Praise that names the exact behavior immediately after it occurs reinforces that behavior far more effectively than delayed or generic recognition.
The One Minute Manager: Three Practices That Still Work - Use SBI for positive feedback, not just correction
Name the situation, behavior, and impact when someone does something right.
The SBI Feedback Model, Made Practical - Encourage the effort and the process, not the outcome
Encouragement builds inner confidence; outcome-praise creates dependency on adult evaluation.
Natural and Logical Consequences (Rudolf Dreikurs) - Sportscast what you see rather than directing
Narrate the play without evaluation, question, or instruction.
Special Time (Lawrence Cohen — Playful Parenting) - Make praise as specific as criticism
Vague praise is nearly worthless; name exactly what was good and why.
Radical Candor, Made Practical - Recognize what is not happening with proactive recognition
Catch the child not misbehaving and name the success explicitly.
The Nurtured Heart Approach (Howard Glasser) - Celebrate immediately to wire it in
Generate a genuine flash of positive emotion the instant you do the tiny behavior.
Tiny Habits, Made Practical - Use escalating rewards to maintain motivation across time
Build in reward escalation — increasing token value for sustained performance — to counteract the habituation that flattens fixed rewards.
Contingency Management and Token Economies
Related concerns
- Avoid Ability Praise
Vague praise is nearly worthless; name exactly what was good and why.
Make praise as specific as criticism
- Contingent Praise Parenting
"You set the table without being asked — that helped the whole family" is more powerful than "Good job."
Encourage specific contributions and efforts
- How To Praise
Vague praise is nearly worthless; name exactly what was good and why.
- How To Praise Children Effectively
"You set the table without being asked — that helped the whole family" is more powerful than "Good job."
- Personalized Positive Reinforcement
Identify something that genuinely increases your likelihood of repeating the behavior — not what should work, but what actually does.
Design a genuine positive reinforcer for the target behavior
- Positive Reinforcement
Identify something that genuinely increases your likelihood of repeating the behavior — not what should work, but what actually does.
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