Coaching practices for Coaching in 1 on 1s

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• I only ever coach in the rare formal sit-down and then default to firing off answers in every quick hallway exchange
• My one-on-ones sprawl and end with nothing decided
• When I coach people, almost everything out of my mouth is about their body
• When I replay my coaching conversations I’m talking way more than the other person
• I practice on my own and only ever find out afterward that the whole thing was wrong, with no idea where I went off the rails

Practices that may help

1. Effective One-on-Ones, Made Practical
   An effective one-on-one is a recurring, protected meeting that belongs to your report: they own the agenda, and your job is to listen, unblock, and support their growth — not to run a status update. The relational mechanisms (regular contact, voice, support) are well grounded; the specific cadence and format are practitioner craft built on top of them.
2. Use GROW in brief leadership conversations, not just formal coaching sessions
   Apply GROW structure to 5-minute hallway conversations and 1-on-1 check-ins — not only to hour-long coaching sessions.
   The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
3. Set the Goal — establish what the conversation is for
   Begin every coaching conversation by clarifying what the person wants to achieve in this session.
   The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
4. Rewrite internal-focus coaching cues as external-focus equivalents
   Audit your coaching language and convert body-focused instructions to effect-focused ones.
   External Focus of Attention, Made Practical
5. Maintain a high question-to-statement ratio throughout GROW
   Ask questions far more often than you offer statements — the coachee’s thinking is the product.
   The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
6. Coached practice with targeted feedback
   Attempt the task yourself while a coach observes and provides immediate, specific feedback on process.
   Cognitive Apprenticeship: Learning by Making Thinking Visible
7. Powerful open questions at every stage
   Ask questions that invite thinking, not ones that suggest answers — and ask more than you tell.
   The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical
8. Spend real time on growth, not just tasks
   Regularly leave the weeds and talk about career, skills, and where they’re headed.
   Effective One-on-Ones, Made Practical
9. Make feedback flow in both directions
   Give timely, specific feedback — and ask for it on your own management.
   Effective One-on-Ones, Made Practical
10. Clarify the Goal with precision
    Establish exactly what the person wants to achieve — not the presenting topic, but the specific, owned outcome.
    The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical

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