Coaching practices for Grow Coaching Questions
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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- When I replay my coaching conversations I’m talking way more than the other person
- I think I’m asking questions, but they’re really suggestions in disguise
- I only ever coach in the rare formal sit-down and then default to firing off answers in every quick hallway exchange
- My conversations just sort of trail off when the time runs out, and people leave with a polite thanks
- The people I coach leave fired up with a plan, but the first ordinary snag throws them and the whole thing quietly dies
Practices that may help
- Maintain a high question-to-statement ratio throughout GROW
Ask questions far more often than you offer statements — the coachee’s thinking is the product.
The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People - Powerful open questions at every stage
Ask questions that invite thinking, not ones that suggest answers — and ask more than you tell.
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical - Use GROW in brief leadership conversations, not just formal coaching sessions
Apply GROW structure to 5-minute hallway conversations and 1-on-1 check-ins — not only to hour-long coaching sessions.
The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People - The Coaching Habit: Seven Questions to Be More Coach-Like
Michael Bungay Stanier’s seven questions — from "What’s on your mind?" through "What was most useful for you?" — are a practical system for coaching conversations that takes less than a minute to learn and a career to master. The framework is practitioner-derived from behavioral coaching practice; its mechanisms are grounded in autonomy support, self-determination, and the generation effect. The questions work because they shift the cognitive labor back to the person who owns the problem. - Close with "What was most useful for you?"
The closing question turns the conversation into a learning that sticks — and teaches you what is actually valuable.
The Coaching Habit: Seven Questions to Be More Coach-Like - Obstacle anticipation before close
Before ending, ask "what could get in the way?" and pre-plan the response.
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical - Set the Goal — establish what the conversation is for
Begin every coaching conversation by clarifying what the person wants to achieve in this session.
The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People - Generate Options before evaluating any
Brainstorm all possible paths before judging — then the coachee, not the coach, narrows them.
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical - Clarify the Goal with precision
Establish exactly what the person wants to achieve — not the presenting topic, but the specific, owned outcome.
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical - Close the GROW loop with session review
At the start of the next session, review what was committed and what actually happened before setting a new goal.
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Brief Coaching Conversations
In coaching conversations, ask "what could you do differently?" instead of "what went wrong?"
Replace performance review conversations with feedforward conversations
- Coaching Question Techniques
Ask questions that invite thinking, not ones that suggest answers — and ask more than you tell.
Powerful open questions at every stage
- Awl Question Coaching Habit
The first answer is rarely the most important one — "And what else?" pulls out the one that actually matters.
Ask "And what else?"
- Coaching Check In Tool
Sharing your wheel with a partner, coach, or trusted friend turns a self-assessment into a conversation and a commitment.
Use the wheel as a relationship check-in, not just a solo exercise
- Coaching Closing Conversation
The closing question turns the conversation into a learning that sticks — and teaches you what is actually valuable.
Close with "What was most useful for you?"
- Coaching Conversation Future Focused
In coaching conversations, ask "what could you do differently?" instead of "what went wrong?"
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