Coaching practices for How to Be More Assertive at Work Podcast
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- I say the firm thing but my voice goes up at the end like a question, my eyes drop, and I tack on a nervous little laugh
- The second a pause opens up I rush to fill it with advice, so I do most of the talking and my report just nods
- Whenever I need to ask for something or say no, it comes out either as an attack or as me folding completely
- Even when I’ve got the right words, my voice goes shaky and my sentences tilt up into questions, and the apology in my body
- I’m about to meet someone important for the first time and I have no read on them yet
Practices that may help
- Assertiveness Training, Made Practical
Assertiveness training is a set of learnable skills — using I-statements, the broken-record technique, fogging, and saying no without over-justifying — that let you express needs and limits directly without aggression or passivity. It comes out of behavior therapy and social-skills training and has a genuine clinical basis, taught for decades in therapeutic settings. - Match your body to your words
Assertive words undercut by passive body language read as a bluff.
Assertiveness Training, Made Practical - Listen far more than you talk
Aim to talk a fraction of the time; your silence is what makes space for the real issues.
Effective One-on-Ones, Made Practical - DEAR MAN for interpersonal effectiveness
A structured script — Describe, Express, Assert, Reinforce, Mindful, Appear confident, Negotiate — for asking and saying no.
Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Skills, Made Practical - Appear confident even when you don’t feel it
Maintain eye contact, a level voice, and an upright posture — confidence is performed before it’s felt.
DEAR MAN: DBT’s Skill for Asking for What You Want Effectively - Read assertiveness and responsiveness quickly
Observe whether someone talks more than they listen (assertiveness) and whether they show emotion openly (responsiveness).
Social Style Matrix: Adapting to How People Communicate - Use powerless communication to build trust
Ask questions and admit uncertainty rather than projecting confidence — it builds credibility with givers.
Give and Take: The Giver Advantage - DEAR MAN: making effective requests
Describe, Express, Assert, Reinforce — then Mindful, Appear confident, Negotiate.
DBT Interpersonal Effectiveness: Getting What You Need Without Destroying the Relationship - Adapt to Drivers: be direct, results-focused, and brief
With high-assertiveness, low-responsiveness people, lead with the bottom line and leave out the social warmup.
Social Style Matrix: Adapting to How People Communicate - Teach speak-up skills, not just encourage speaking up
Give team members specific language for raising concerns, not just permission to raise them.
Psychological Safety in Teams
Related concerns
- Assertiveness Training In A New Job
Assertiveness training is a set of learnable skills — using I-statements, the broken-record technique, fogging, and saying no without over-justifying — that let you express needs and limits directly without aggression or passivity. It comes out of behavior therapy and social-skills training and has a genuine clinical basis, taught for decades in therapeutic settings.
- How To Be More Assertive At Work Examples
Assertiveness training is a set of learnable skills — using I-statements, the broken-record technique, fogging, and saying no without over-justifying — that let you express needs and limits directly without aggression or passivity. It comes out of behavior therapy and social-skills training and has a genuine clinical basis, taught for decades in therapeutic settings.
- Assertiveness Training At Work
Assertiveness training is a set of learnable skills — using I-statements, the broken-record technique, fogging, and saying no without over-justifying — that let you express needs and limits directly without aggression or passivity. It comes out of behavior therapy and social-skills training and has a genuine clinical basis, taught for decades in therapeutic settings.
- Assertiveness Training When Starting Out
Assertiveness training is a set of learnable skills — using I-statements, the broken-record technique, fogging, and saying no without over-justifying — that let you express needs and limits directly without aggression or passivity. It comes out of behavior therapy and social-skills training and has a genuine clinical basis, taught for decades in therapeutic settings.
- How To Be More Assertive And Confident At Work
Assertiveness training is a set of learnable skills — using I-statements, the broken-record technique, fogging, and saying no without over-justifying — that let you express needs and limits directly without aggression or passivity. It comes out of behavior therapy and social-skills training and has a genuine clinical basis, taught for decades in therapeutic settings.
- How To Be More Assertive At Work
Assertiveness training is a set of learnable skills — using I-statements, the broken-record technique, fogging, and saying no without over-justifying — that let you express needs and limits directly without aggression or passivity. It comes out of behavior therapy and social-skills training and has a genuine clinical basis, taught for decades in therapeutic settings.
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