Coaching practices for How to Deflect Interview Question About Most Recent Job

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• I’ve got the conversation booked but I’m staring at a blank page of questions, worried I’ll waste their time asking things I could’ve Googled
• Someone asks "so what are you looking for?" and I ramble out something vague and apologetic
• Whenever I ask how I’m doing, the answer comes back as a verdict on what I already screwed up, and I spend the whole conversation defending myself instead of actually learning anything I could use next time.
• The conversation goes great and then it just...
• When I talk to people in the field they give me the polished official version, and I walk away no clearer on what the day-to-day actually feels like

Practices that may help

1. Prepare questions you genuinely don’t know the answer to
   Ask about the unwritten realities of the role — the things no job posting reveals.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
2. Practise your story before you need it
   Have a clear, genuine two-minute narrative about who you are and where you’re headed.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
3. Ask for ideas about the future, not assessments of the past
   Replace "how did I do?" with "what ideas do you have for how I could do better?"
   Feedforward: Future-Focused Feedback That Actually Changes Behavior
4. Close every informational interview with one forward step
   End by asking: "Is there someone else you think I should talk to?"
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
5. Listen for what isn’t in the job description
   Focus on the texture of day-to-day work, not the official narrative.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
6. Use structured debrief questions to guide any review
   Replace "how did it go?" with specific questions that move through each stage of the cycle.
   Structured Reflection: Kolb’s Learning Cycle in Practice
7. Ask calibrated questions
   Use open "how" and "what" questions that hand them the problem to solve with you.
   Tactical Empathy
8. Build and work a target list of roles and organisations
   Replace passive job board browsing with active research into specific organisations you want to understand.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
9. Request the conversation the right way
   A short, specific, no-pressure request gets far more responses than a vague networking ask.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
10. Replace "why" with "how" or "what"
    "Why" sounds accusatory; "how" and "what" invite problem-solving.
    Calibrated Questions, Made Practical

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