How to Stop Performance Anxiety Men: 10 Evidence-Based Coaching Practices

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Practices that may help

1. De-activation Strategies for Over-Arousal
   Use targeted techniques to reduce arousal when anxiety or over-activation is undermining performance.
   The Yerkes-Dodson Law: Finding Your Optimal Performance Zone
2. Write about your worries before a high-stakes performance
   Offload performance anxiety by writing it out in full immediately before the event.
   Choking Under Pressure, Made Practical
3. Use paradoxical intention for performance anxiety
   Before a performance, commit to performing as badly as possible — notice what happens to the anxiety.
   Logotherapy: Paradoxical Intention
4. Shift to task-focused attention under performance anxiety
   Redirect attention from self-monitoring and outcome worry to the specific process cues of the task at hand.
   Attentional Deployment, Made Practical
5. Recalibrate arousal as readiness, not threat
   Reinterpret pre-performance anxiety as energy and readiness rather than evidence of inadequacy.
   Mastery Experiences
6. Havening to clear pre-performance anxiety
   Run a short havening sequence before a high-stakes event to lower physiological anxiety.
   Self-Havening: Calming the Nervous System Through Touch
7. Apply EFT to specific performance anxiety triggers
   EFT has the strongest self-guided evidence for test anxiety, public speaking, and sports performance stress.
   EFT Tapping: What It Is, How to Do It, and What the Evidence Shows
8. Create a pre-performance ritual that includes posture
   A consistent pre-performance ritual — including posture — reduces anxiety and improves performance more reliably than any single element.
   Power Posing Revisited
9. Reappraise physiological arousal as activation, not anxiety
   Tell yourself "I’m excited" rather than "I’m nervous" — the physiology is identical; the label changes performance.
   The Clutch State: Performing Under Pressure
10. Reappraise anxiety as excitement before high-stakes performance
    Tell yourself "I’m excited" rather than "I’m nervous" — the physiology is the same, the performance effect is not.
    Choking Under Pressure, Made Practical

Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• Right before I go on, my heart’s pounding, my hands are shaking, my mind’s gone tunnel-narrow and blank→
• Right before the test or the big moment, my head is so jammed with what-ifs and dread that there’s no room left to actually think→
• I’m so wound up about nailing this presentation that the pressure to be good is exactly what makes me freeze→
• The moment I’m up there performing, my head fills with "how do I look, am I blowing this, what are they thinking"→
• Right before anything that matters my heart pounds and my hands shake, and I read all of it as proof I’m not ready and about to fall apart→

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