Coaching practices for Interests vs Positions the Core of Integrative Negotiation at Work
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- We’re treating this like a fight when actually we both want the same outcome
- The other person is dug in on a flat demand and I’m about to start countering it
- The numbers actually work and yet they still won’t budge, and I keep sweetening the offer to no effect
- We’re both clamped onto our numbers and just sliding them toward the middle, and it feels like a tug-of-war with no give
- We’re both dug into our numbers and it feels totally deadlocked, but I have a hunch we’re not actually that far apart underneath
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- Interests vs. Positions: The Core of Integrative Negotiation
A position is what someone says they want ("I need $80,000"); an interest is why they want it ("I need to cover my expenses and feel valued"). Fisher and Ury’s insight in Getting to Yes is that positions in direct conflict often mask compatible interests — and that negotiating on interests rather than positions is the main lever for creating agreements that satisfy both parties rather than splitting the difference. - Identify compatible interests for joint gain
When both sides care about the same thing — quality, reputation, timing — agreements that serve that shared interest outperform splits.
Interests vs. Positions: The Core of Integrative Negotiation - Ask "why" before proposing any solution
Understand the interest driving a position before generating any solution — solutions invented before interests are understood usually solve the wrong problem.
Interests vs. Positions: The Core of Integrative Negotiation - Distinguish substantive, procedural, and psychological interests
The interest behind a position is often not about the money or the terms — it may be about face, fairness, or control.
Interests vs. Positions: The Core of Integrative Negotiation - Focus on interests, not positions
Dig beneath what each side demands to why they want it — the interest, not the stance.
Getting to Yes: Principled Negotiation - Focus on interests, not positions
Ask why a position is taken — the underlying interest is almost always more negotiable than the stated demand.
Principled Negotiation, Made Practical - Trade across issues where each side has different priorities
Give the counterpart what they care most about; get what you care most about — logrolling is only possible when interests differ.
Interests vs. Positions: The Core of Integrative Negotiation - Map interests for both sides before generating solutions
Write down both parties’ known and inferred interests before proposing anything — the map reveals trades that no single position could.
Interests vs. Positions: The Core of Integrative Negotiation - Probe for interests, not positions
Ask why the other side wants what they say they want before responding to what they say.
Expanding the Pie: Negotiation Beyond Splitting the Difference - Disclose your own interests explicitly — not just your positions
Stating what you actually need — not just what you’re asking for — opens the door to creative solutions you couldn’t have imagined asking for.
Interests vs. Positions: The Core of Integrative Negotiation
Related concerns
- Interests Vs Positions Negotiation
A position is what someone says they want ("I need $80,000"); an interest is why they want it ("I need to cover my expenses and feel valued"). Fisher and Ury’s insight in Getting to Yes is that positions in direct conflict often mask compatible interests — and that negotiating on interests rather than positions is the main lever for creating agreements that satisfy both parties rather than splitting the difference.
- Interests Vs Positions The Core Of Integrative Negotiation After A Loss
A position is what someone says they want ("I need $80,000"); an interest is why they want it ("I need to cover my expenses and feel valued"). Fisher and Ury’s insight in Getting to Yes is that positions in direct conflict often mask compatible interests — and that negotiating on interests rather than positions is the main lever for creating agreements that satisfy both parties rather than splitting the difference.
- Interests Vs Positions The Core Of Integrative Negotiation In A New Job
A position is what someone says they want ("I need $80,000"); an interest is why they want it ("I need to cover my expenses and feel valued"). Fisher and Ury’s insight in Getting to Yes is that positions in direct conflict often mask compatible interests — and that negotiating on interests rather than positions is the main lever for creating agreements that satisfy both parties rather than splitting the difference.
- Negotiation Interests
A position is what someone says they want ("I need $80,000"); an interest is why they want it ("I need to cover my expenses and feel valued"). Fisher and Ury’s insight in Getting to Yes is that positions in direct conflict often mask compatible interests — and that negotiating on interests rather than positions is the main lever for creating agreements that satisfy both parties rather than splitting the difference.
- Positions Vs Interests
A position is what someone says they want ("I need $80,000"); an interest is why they want it ("I need to cover my expenses and feel valued"). Fisher and Ury’s insight in Getting to Yes is that positions in direct conflict often mask compatible interests — and that negotiating on interests rather than positions is the main lever for creating agreements that satisfy both parties rather than splitting the difference.
- Types Of Interests Negotiation
A position is what someone says they want ("I need $80,000"); an interest is why they want it ("I need to cover my expenses and feel valued"). Fisher and Ury’s insight in Getting to Yes is that positions in direct conflict often mask compatible interests — and that negotiating on interests rather than positions is the main lever for creating agreements that satisfy both parties rather than splitting the difference.
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