Coaching practices for What Should I Know When Applying for My First Job

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• My whole job search is just refreshing job boards and firing off applications into the void, competing with hundreds of strangers for whatever happens to be posted
• I’ve got the conversation booked but I’m staring at a blank page of questions, worried I’ll waste their time asking things I could’ve Googled
• I want to message someone in a field I’m curious about, but I freeze on what to even say
• When I talk to people in the field they give me the polished official version, and I walk away no clearer on what the day-to-day actually feels like
• I’ve got a salary talk coming up and I actually know what the role is worth, but my instinct is to hang back politely and let them say a number first

Practices that may help

1. Build and work a target list of roles and organisations
   Replace passive job board browsing with active research into specific organisations you want to understand.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
2. Prepare questions you genuinely don’t know the answer to
   Ask about the unwritten realities of the role — the things no job posting reveals.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
3. Request the conversation the right way
   A short, specific, no-pressure request gets far more responses than a vague networking ask.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
4. Listen for what isn’t in the job description
   Focus on the texture of day-to-day work, not the official narrative.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
5. Make the first offer (when you’re informed)
   When you know the value range, anchor first — the opening number drags the deal toward it.
   Anchoring Bias in Negotiation and Judgment
6. Use genius mapping in onboarding
   Surface a new hire’s geniuses early so you design their role around energy, not just skills.
   The 6 Types of Working Genius (Patrick Lencioni)
7. Practise your story before you need it
   Have a clear, genuine two-minute narrative about who you are and where you’re headed.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
8. Start with a minimal, easy-to-agree request
   The first ask should be small enough that virtually anyone would say yes.
   The Foot-in-the-Door Technique, Made Practical
9. Read assertiveness and responsiveness quickly
   Observe whether someone talks more than they listen (assertiveness) and whether they show emotion openly (responsiveness).
   Social Style Matrix: Adapting to How People Communicate
10. Sample widely before committing to a niche
    Premature specialization forecloses interests you haven’t discovered yet.
    Passion vs Interest: How to Actually Find Work You Love

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