What to Do If Anxious? 10 Coaching Practices to Try

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Practices that may help

  1. Engage with the present moment
    Once the edge comes off, redirect attention fully into an activity or your surroundings.
    The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
  2. Use grounding before anxiety peaks, not after
    Start the technique at the first sign of anxiety — not once the wave is overwhelming.
    The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique
  3. Balanced, compassionate self-talk
    Talk to yourself as you would to a friend — accurate and kind, not harsh or falsely cheery.
    The Anxiety Toolkit, Made Practical
  4. Run toward the feeling
    Actively invite more of the anxiety rather than waiting nervously for it to pass.
    The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
  5. The 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique
    Name five things you see, four you hear, three you feel, two you smell, one you taste.
    The Anxiety Toolkit, Made Practical
  6. Defuse the catastrophic thought
    Meet the "what if" with a neutral "so what / whatever" instead of arguing or believing it.
    The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
  7. Interoceptive awareness
    Practice noticing and naming body sensations neutrally, so they stop reading as alarms.
    The Anxiety Toolkit, Made Practical
  8. Rehearse the response before you need it
    Learn and practice the four steps in low-stakes moments so they are available under pressure.
    The DARE Response to Anxiety, Made Practical
  9. Run the full 5-4-3-2-1 sequence
    Work through all five senses in order: 5 things seen, 4 heard, 3 touched, 2 smelled, 1 tasted.
    The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique
  10. Combine worry exposure with relaxation skill
    After the exposure period, apply a relaxation practice to close each session with a deactivation phase.
    Worry Exposure, Made Practical

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