Coaching practices for My Coaching Chats End on a Warm I'll Try to Get to it That I Let Slide as If it Were a Plan and Then Nothing Happens Because I Never Pinned it to a Specific Action They'd Actually Do by a Specific Day
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- My coaching chats end on a warm "I’ll try to get to it" that I let slide as if it were a plan
- We have a great talk and the person leaves with "I’ll think about it," and within a day or two it’s evaporated
- The people I coach leave fired up with a plan, but the first ordinary snag throws them and the whole thing quietly dies
- My one-on-ones sprawl and end with nothing decided
- I start each coaching conversation from scratch and never circle back to what the person said they’d do last time
Practices that may help
- Build a concrete Will commitment
Convert the chosen option into a specific next action with a date, and ask "what will you do?" not "what will you try?"
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical - Secure Will — convert the best option into a specific commitment
Close the conversation with a specific, self-declared commitment to a concrete next action.
The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People - Obstacle anticipation before close
Before ending, ask "what could get in the way?" and pre-plan the response.
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical - Set the Goal — establish what the conversation is for
Begin every coaching conversation by clarifying what the person wants to achieve in this session.
The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People - Close the GROW loop with session review
At the start of the next session, review what was committed and what actually happened before setting a new goal.
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical - Specify the when and where for every goal action
"I will do [behavior] at [time] in [location]" — specificity creates an automatic trigger.
If–Then Planning, Made Practical - Write when, where, and how plans for every behavioral goal
Specify exactly when, where, and how you will act — not just what you intend to do.
Action Planning - Chunk and schedule time for key results
Block specific chunks of time for the actions in your MAP and protect them as non-negotiable.
Tony Robbins’ Rapid Planning Method (RPM), Made Practical - Set if-then implementation intentions for goal behaviors
Specify when, where, and how you’ll act — not just whether you intend to.
Hyperbolic Discounting — Why Future You Always Gets the Short End - Clarify the Goal with precision
Establish exactly what the person wants to achieve — not the presenting topic, but the specific, owned outcome.
The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical
Related concerns
- Implementation Intention Coaching
Convert the chosen option into a specific next action with a date, and ask "what will you do?" not "what will you try?"
Build a concrete Will commitment
- Coaching Action Planning
Before ending, ask "what could get in the way?" and pre-plan the response.
Obstacle anticipation before close
- Goal Setting Coaching Conversation
Establish exactly what the person wants to achieve — not the presenting topic, but the specific, owned outcome.
Clarify the Goal with precision
- When The Grow Coaching Model Grow Obstacle Anticipation
Before ending, ask "what could get in the way?" and pre-plan the response.
- Clarify Your Goal Coaching
Establish exactly what the person wants to achieve — not the presenting topic, but the specific, owned outcome.
- Coaching Closing Conversation
The closing question turns the conversation into a learning that sticks — and teaches you what is actually valuable.
Close with "What was most useful for you?"
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