Coaching practices for My Coaching Chats End on a Warm I'll Try to Get to it That I Let Slide as If it Were a Plan and Then Nothing Happens Because I Never Pinned it to a Specific Action They'd Actually Do by a Specific Day

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

  • My coaching chats end on a warm "I’ll try to get to it" that I let slide as if it were a plan
  • We have a great talk and the person leaves with "I’ll think about it," and within a day or two it’s evaporated
  • The people I coach leave fired up with a plan, but the first ordinary snag throws them and the whole thing quietly dies
  • My one-on-ones sprawl and end with nothing decided
  • I start each coaching conversation from scratch and never circle back to what the person said they’d do last time

Practices that may help

  1. Build a concrete Will commitment
    Convert the chosen option into a specific next action with a date, and ask "what will you do?" not "what will you try?"
    The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical
  2. Secure Will — convert the best option into a specific commitment
    Close the conversation with a specific, self-declared commitment to a concrete next action.
    The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
  3. Obstacle anticipation before close
    Before ending, ask "what could get in the way?" and pre-plan the response.
    The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical
  4. Set the Goal — establish what the conversation is for
    Begin every coaching conversation by clarifying what the person wants to achieve in this session.
    The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
  5. Close the GROW loop with session review
    At the start of the next session, review what was committed and what actually happened before setting a new goal.
    The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical
  6. Specify the when and where for every goal action
    "I will do [behavior] at [time] in [location]" — specificity creates an automatic trigger.
    If–Then Planning, Made Practical
  7. Write when, where, and how plans for every behavioral goal
    Specify exactly when, where, and how you will act — not just what you intend to do.
    Action Planning
  8. Chunk and schedule time for key results
    Block specific chunks of time for the actions in your MAP and protect them as non-negotiable.
    Tony Robbins’ Rapid Planning Method (RPM), Made Practical
  9. Set if-then implementation intentions for goal behaviors
    Specify when, where, and how you’ll act — not just whether you intend to.
    Hyperbolic Discounting — Why Future You Always Gets the Short End
  10. Clarify the Goal with precision
    Establish exactly what the person wants to achieve — not the presenting topic, but the specific, owned outcome.
    The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical

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