Coaching practices for Whitmore Coaching Performance

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• I give my team a sharp, accurate read on what’s going wrong and exactly how to fix it, and they nod and walk away
• I sit down to coach someone through what happened and they’re already braced, because they know I’ve made up my mind about how they did
• I start each coaching conversation from scratch and never circle back to what the person said they’d do last time
• The people I coach leave fired up with a plan, but the first ordinary snag throws them and the whole thing quietly dies
• When I coach people, almost everything out of my mouth is about their body

Practices that may help

1. Raise awareness and build responsibility simultaneously
   Help the person see their situation more clearly while also connecting them to their ownership of it.
   The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
2. The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
   The GROW model (Goal, Reality, Options, Will/Way Forward), popularized by John Whitmore’s Coaching for Performance, is the most widely used coaching conversation framework. It works by sequencing a conversation from goal clarity through honest reality assessment to option generation and commitment — resisting the coach’s instinct to jump straight to advice. Evidence is clinical rather than from controlled trials, though the underlying principles map onto well-supported psychological mechanisms.
3. Replace performance review conversations with feedforward conversations
   In coaching conversations, ask "what could you do differently?" instead of "what went wrong?"
   Feedforward: Future-Focused Feedback That Actually Changes Behavior
4. Close the GROW loop with session review
   At the start of the next session, review what was committed and what actually happened before setting a new goal.
   The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical
5. Obstacle anticipation before close
   Before ending, ask "what could get in the way?" and pre-plan the response.
   The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical
6. Rewrite internal-focus coaching cues as external-focus equivalents
   Audit your coaching language and convert body-focused instructions to effect-focused ones.
   External Focus of Attention, Made Practical
7. Create thinking space rather than filling every meeting with content
   The most valuable thing a coaching manager provides is protected time and space for reflection — which most teams never get.
   The Leader as Coach: A New Management Paradigm
8. Maintain a high question-to-statement ratio throughout GROW
   Ask questions far more often than you offer statements — the coachee’s thinking is the product.
   The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
9. Use GROW in brief leadership conversations, not just formal coaching sessions
   Apply GROW structure to 5-minute hallway conversations and 1-on-1 check-ins — not only to hour-long coaching sessions.
   The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
10. Coaching — high direction and high support for the disillusioned learner
    When early enthusiasm dips but skill is still forming, combine clear guidance with active encouragement.
    Situational Leadership, Made Practical

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