Coaching practices for Why Can't I Get a Job

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Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• My whole job search is just refreshing job boards and firing off applications into the void, competing with hundreds of strangers for whatever happens to be posted
• I want to message someone in a field I’m curious about, but I freeze on what to even say
• I keep hiring for the most impressive resume and then watching them work purely transactionally, and I want to start screening for whether someone actually believes in what we’re doing
• I’ve got the conversation booked but I’m staring at a blank page of questions, worried I’ll waste their time asking things I could’ve Googled
• I keep pouring myself into being furious at something I genuinely can’t change

Practices that may help

1. Build and work a target list of roles and organisations
   Replace passive job board browsing with active research into specific organisations you want to understand.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
2. Request the conversation the right way
   A short, specific, no-pressure request gets far more responses than a vague networking ask.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
3. Hire people who share the Why, not just the skills
   Skills can be learned; shared belief cannot — filtering for Why-alignment at hiring is the highest-leverage culture move.
   Start With Why: Leading Through Purpose
4. Prepare questions you genuinely don’t know the answer to
   Ask about the unwritten realities of the role — the things no job posting reveals.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
5. Spot gravity problems
   Distinguish problems you can act on from "gravity problems" you can only accept and route around.
   Designing Your Life, Made Practical
6. Listen for what isn’t in the job description
   Focus on the texture of day-to-day work, not the official narrative.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
7. Practise your story before you need it
   Have a clear, genuine two-minute narrative about who you are and where you’re headed.
   Informational Interviews: Career Research That Builds Your Network
8. Say no by reference to your priorities, not your schedule
   Decline non-essential requests by citing what matters more, not by claiming you lack time.
   Big Rocks First
9. Task Initiation: Overcoming the Start Problem
   Russell Barkley’s executive-function model identifies task initiation as a distinct capacity — separate from motivation or ability — that is regulated by the prefrontal cortex and is frequently the real bottleneck in procrastination. Strategies that lower the activation threshold (micro-starts, time-limits, external cues) are well supported by clinical work and behavior-change research, even if isolated RCTs on each technique are limited.
10. Identify the main internal obstacle that stands between you and the wish
    Ask honestly: what is the primary thing in me — not outside me — that is most likely to block this wish?
    Mental Contrasting and WOOP

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