Ask what each earlier self gave you, and what you dropped
Walk back through the people you have been and list, for each, one capacity you kept and one you left behind.
なぜ効果があるのか
In Wilber’s account, each earlier structure “remains in existence” after it is outgrown and has to be integrated into the new self rather than left behind. Esbjörn-Hargens describes the same pattern as holarchy: each level goes beyond the limits of the previous one but includes its essential aspects. A deliberate review of earlier selves turns that claim into something you can check against your own life — where you kept the capacity and where you threw it out along with the identity.
やり方
- Write down four or five earlier versions of yourself by age or chapter — the kid, the teenager, the student, the early-career self.
- For each, write one thing that version could do well: play without purpose, trust easily, believe fiercely, stay up all night for a friend.
- Mark each capacity K if you still have access to it today and L if you left it behind when you left that chapter.
- For each L, ask: did I outgrow the way I used it, or did I throw the capacity out too?
- Choose one L to look at more closely this month; leave the rest on the page.
エビデンス
The idea that earlier structures persist and must be integrated comes from Wilber’s 1984 paper on the developmental spectrum and from Esbjörn-Hargens’s overview of integral theory, which defines holarchy as transcending the limits of earlier levels while including their essential aspects. Combs’s 2013 handbook chapter on Wilber’s contribution to transpersonal psychology is titled “Transcend and Include”. The review exercise is a reflective application of that principle, not a tested intervention. (mechanistic)
This is a philosophical framework, not an empirical finding. Some things people leave behind were genuinely harmful, and nothing here says every earlier capacity should be reclaimed.
出典
- Wilber, K. (1984). The Developmental Spectrum and Psychopathology: Part I, Stages and Types of Pathology. Journal of Transpersonal Psychology, 16(1), 75–118.
- Esbjörn-Hargens, S. (2010). An Overview of Integral Theory: An All-Inclusive Framework for the Twenty-First Century. In S. Esbjörn-Hargens (Ed.), Integral Theory in Action: Applied, Theoretical, and Constructive Perspectives on the AQAL Model. SUNY Press. (First circulated as Integral Institute Resource Paper No. 1, 2009.)
- Combs, A. (2013). Transcend and Include: Ken Wilber’s Contribution to Transpersonal Psychology. In H. L. Friedman & G. Hartelius (Eds.), The Wiley-Blackwell Handbook of Transpersonal Psychology (pp. 166–186). Wiley-Blackwell.
よくある間違い
Turning the review into nostalgia for who you were. The question is not whether that chapter was better, but whether a specific capacity from it got thrown out with the identity it was attached to.
IX Coach でこれを実践する
Holons, Holarchy and “Transcend and Include”, Made Practical の実践法をもっと見る
- Reclaim one capacity you cut off on the way “up”
Pick one capacity you disowned while becoming more mature — feeling, play, need, belonging — and give it a small, regular place again.
- Release the old identity, keep what it built in you
When you leave a role, faith, team or culture behind, separate the identity you are letting go of from the capacities it gave you.
- Treat the stages you outgrew with respect when you meet them in others
Notice contempt for people who see the world the way you used to, and treat it as a sign of exclusion rather than growth.
- Look at a problem as a whole and as a part
When you are pulled between your own needs and a group’s, describe the situation once from each face of the holon.
- Check whether a hierarchy you are in grows people or dominates them
Ask whether the ranking you live inside exists to build people’s capacities or to keep power where it is.
- Notice when one part of you is running the whole
Spot the part of your life — work self, achiever, rational mind — that has taken over and is crowding the rest out.
関連する概念
- Ken Wilber’s Integral Theory (AQAL), Made Practical
Five elements for catching what your view of a situation leaves out, held as a map rather than a truth
- システム思考
出来事ではなく構造を見ること——そしてそれが生み出すてこの力
- ケーガンの主体客体理論を実践に活かす
思い込みに動かされる状態から、それを吟味できる状態へ
- スパイラル・ダイナミクス、実践的に
価値観のシステムがどう発達するか、そしてそれをまたいでどう対話するかを理解する
- シャドウワーク
見過ごしてきた自分の一部と向き合う