3 by Bailey: 10 Evidence-Based Coaching Practices

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Practices that may help

1. The Rule of Three for Productivity, Made Practical
   Chris Bailey’s Rule of Three is a simple planning practice: at the start of each day (and week), identify three outcomes you want to achieve — not a task list, but specific results. It is a practitioner system with no formal trials; its value comes from forcing a distinction between tasks and outcomes and reducing the cognitive overhead of open-ended planning. The number three is a heuristic aligned with working-memory research, not a precisely studied threshold.
2. The Three Bs of Creativity: Bed, Bath, and Bus
   The "three Bs" — Bed, Bath, and Bus — name the observation that creative breakthroughs often arrive during unfocused, mind-wandering states rather than at the desk. The underlying mechanism (incubation: unconscious associative processing continues after focused effort stops) has real experimental support. You can deliberately engineer conditions that make these moments more productive.
3. Three Good Things: The Evidence-Based Gratitude Practice
   In Martin Seligman’s original randomized controlled trial, participants who wrote three good things and their causes each evening for one week reported significantly higher happiness and lower depression at one month and six months — making it one of the most replicated exercises in positive psychology. Effects are genuine but modest; the practice sustains benefits best when kept specific and causal rather than performed as a gratitude list.
4. The One Minute Manager: Three Practices That Still Work
   Blanchard and Johnson’s One Minute Manager distills management to three practices: one-minute goals (clear, written, short), one-minute praisings (specific, immediate, genuine), and one-minute reprimands (immediate, behavior-specific, followed by reaffirmation). The framework is a 1982 practitioner classic, not a clinical protocol, but the mechanisms — specificity in feedback, timeliness, and the separation of behavior from character — are supported by decades of subsequent research in reinforcement and feedback theory.
5. The Three-Minute Breathing Space
   The three-minute breathing space is a brief mindfulness practice from Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT) that interrupts stress or low mood by first expanding awareness to your current experience, then narrowing it to the breath, then widening it back out. Clinical trials supporting MBCT as a whole show efficacy for preventing depressive relapse; the breathing space is the daily-use anchor of that program.
6. Respect the three-outcome limit — not two, not five
   Three is enough to be purposeful and few enough to be achievable; going beyond it dilutes attention across too many focal points.
   The Rule of Three for Productivity, Made Practical
7. The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique
   The 5-4-3-2-1 technique directs deliberate attention to five senses in sequence — five things you can see, four you can hear, three you can touch, two you can smell, one you can taste — pulling awareness out of anxious thought and into present sensory reality. It is a widely used clinical tool for acute anxiety and dissociation, with strong theoretical grounding and practitioner consensus, though large RCT evidence is limited.
8. Triple P Parenting (Matthew Sanders)
   Triple P — Positive Parenting Program — is a multilevel evidence-based parenting support system developed by Matthew Sanders at the University of Queensland. It teaches positive relationship skills, proactive management strategies, and calm responses to misbehavior. Multiple meta-analyses and RCTs support its effectiveness for reducing child behavior problems and parent stress, making it one of the most rigorously evaluated parenting programs in the world.
9. Use a 30-second micro-grounding version for public settings
   In public or meetings, a single-sense version — three named things you can see — takes 30 seconds and shows nothing.
   The 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding Technique
10. The Trust Triangle
    Charles Feltman’s Trust Triangle (from The Thin Book of Trust) identifies four distinct assessments that together constitute trust: sincerity (I mean what I say), reliability (I do what I say), competence (I have the ability to do what I say), and care (I have your interests at heart). Trust breaks down when any one of these assessments fails — and repairing trust requires identifying which assessment was damaged.

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