DBT TIPP Worksheet: 10 Evidence-Based Coaching Practices

Describe almost anything you are working through and IX Coach finds the practices whose real-world fit is closest. For DBT TIPP Worksheet, these are the strongest matches in the current practice library.

Practices that may help

1. Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) Skills, Made Practical
   DBT is a skills-based approach built around a balance — accepting yourself as you are while working to change — taught through four skill sets: mindfulness, distress tolerance, emotion regulation, and interpersonal effectiveness. It has strong randomized-trial support, particularly for chronic emotion dysregulation and self-harm.
2. TIPP: DBT’s Crisis Skill for Rapidly Lowering Emotional Intensity
   TIPP — Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, Progressive relaxation — is a DBT skill developed by Marsha Linehan for rapidly reducing extreme emotional arousal using physiological interventions. Unlike cognitive approaches, TIPP works on the body directly and can shift arousal within minutes, making skills that require reflective thinking accessible again.
3. DBT Interpersonal Effectiveness: Getting What You Need Without Destroying the Relationship
   Dialectical Behavior Therapy’s interpersonal effectiveness module gives concrete skills for asking for what you need, saying no, and managing conflict — without sacrificing either your objectives or the relationship. The DEAR MAN, GIVE, and FAST acronyms operationalize three distinct goals (getting results, keeping the relationship, keeping self-respect) that often pull in different directions. DBT as a whole has strong RCT evidence; the interpersonal module is integral to that evidence base.
4. DBT Emotion Regulation Skills, Made Practical
   DBT’s emotion regulation module teaches you to understand what emotions are and why they fire, reduce vulnerability to emotional overwhelm, and change unwanted emotional states through specific skills. DBT as a whole has strong randomized-trial support; the individual skills are established clinical practice rather than separately trialed units.
5. Behavioral Chain Analysis: The DBT Method for Understanding Problem Behaviors
   Behavioral chain analysis (BCA), a core DBT skill developed by Marsha Linehan, maps every link in the chain of events — from the original vulnerability through the triggering event, thoughts, feelings, and actions — that led to a problem behavior. By making the chain visible, BCA reveals multiple points where the sequence could have been broken, turning a post-hoc autopsy into a concrete prevention plan.
6. Thought records
   A structured worksheet that captures situation, thought, emotion, evidence, and a balanced response.
   Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Made Practical
7. DEAR MAN: DBT’s Skill for Asking for What You Want Effectively
   DEAR MAN — Describe, Express, Assert, Reinforce, Mindful, Appear confident, Negotiate — is a DBT interpersonal effectiveness skill developed by Marsha Linehan. It structures requests and refusals so they are clear, non-aggressive, and effective, balancing getting what you need with preserving the relationship. The evidence base is embedded in the broader DBT clinical literature.
8. Use a challenging beliefs worksheet to work a stuck point completely
   The CPT challenging beliefs worksheet is a structured, written process for examining one stuck point at a time.
   Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT): Unsticking the Meanings That Maintain PTSD
9. Understand TIPP — the full DBT context for this skill
   Temperature is one of four DBT crisis-survival tools (TIPP: Temperature, Intense exercise, Paced breathing, Paired muscle relaxation).
   The Dive Reflex, Made Practical
10. The STOP Skill: A DBT Technique for Crisis Moments
    The STOP skill — Stop, Take a step back, Observe, Proceed mindfully — is a DBT distress-tolerance technique designed to interrupt impulsive, emotion-driven action in crisis moments. It creates a brief deliberate pause between an emotional trigger and a response, allowing the rational mind to re-engage. DBT as a whole has strong RCT evidence; the STOP skill is a defined component of that validated package.

Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?

• When I’m upset it’s all just one big formless cloud of bad→
• When I try to untangle one of these convictions in my head it just spins→
• I’ve got one go-to thing I do when I’m overwhelmed and I lean on it for everything, but it doesn’t always land→

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