RAIN Method Tara Brach: 10 Evidence-Based Coaching Practices

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Try it here: a plan for resisting

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Practices that may help

  1. RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice
    RAIN is a four-step mindfulness practice developed by Tara Brach that stands for Recognize, Allow, Investigate, and Nurture. It is designed to meet difficult emotions — fear, shame, grief, anger — with mindful awareness rather than avoidance or overwhelm. The steps draw on mechanisms shared with acceptance-based therapies (ACT, MSC, MBCT); the RAIN sequence itself is practitioner-developed and not yet independently trialed as a protocol.
  2. After RAIN: resting in natural, open awareness
    After the four steps, rest in the open awareness that remains — not returning immediately to doing.
    RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice
  3. Radical Acceptance, Made Practical
    Radical acceptance, taught by Tara Brach and rooted in dialectical behavior therapy, means fully acknowledging reality as it is — including pain you cannot change — instead of fighting it. The point is not approval or giving up; it is to stop the extra suffering that resistance adds on top of the original pain. Acceptance-based skills are well-established in clinical practice (DBT, ACT); RAIN is a practitioner framework for applying them.
  4. N — Nurture with self-compassion
    Offer the part that is suffering what it most needs — care, acknowledgment, reassurance — as you would a dear friend.
    RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice
  5. Mini-RAIN: a 2-minute version for mid-day use
    Apply the four steps rapidly in 2 minutes to break emotional reactivity in the middle of a difficult moment.
    RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice
  6. Bearing the darkness of not-knowing
    Tolerate the felt absence of light, experience, or consolation during the practice.
    The Cloud of Unknowing: Contemplation Beyond Concepts
  7. Using a short word in prayer
    Choose a single syllable word — "God" or "love" — and use it like a dart of longing.
    The Cloud of Unknowing: Contemplation Beyond Concepts
  8. Releasing all thoughts without judgment
    Let every thought — pleasant or unpleasant, trivial or profound — pass without engaging it.
    Centering Prayer: The Method of Thomas Keating
  9. Pu — simplicity and the uncarved block
    Return regularly to an unconditioned, open state before adding complexity or opinion.
    The Tao Te Ching, Made Practical
  10. I — Investigate with gentle, curious attention
    Bring kind curiosity to the emotion: Where is it in the body? What does it most need?
    RAIN Meditation: Tara Brach’s Four-Step Practice

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