Thought Exercise: 10 Evidence-Based Coaching Practices

Describe almost anything you are working through and IX Coach finds the practices whose real-world fit is closest. For Thought Exercise, these are the strongest matches in the current practice library.

About 2 minutes

Try it here: write a dialogue with a wise friend

Writing a conversation with an imagined wise friend helps you think a hard question through. Write the question first, then the reply.

Write the question you're struggling with, then let a wise friend answer it in writing.

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Practices that may help

  1. Exercise at low-to-moderate intensity to trigger diffuse processing
    Aerobic exercise at a pace that allows free thought is one of the most reliable diffuse-mode triggers.
    Focused vs Diffuse Thinking
  2. Pair philosophical practice with physical exercise
    Use a regular physical practice (walking, exercise) as the occasion for philosophical reflection — as the ancients did.
    Pierre Hadot’s Spiritual Exercises
  3. The written dialogue — inner dialogue as philosophical exercise
    Write a dialogue between yourself and an imagined wise interlocutor on a question you are genuinely struggling with.
    Pierre Hadot’s Spiritual Exercises
  4. Koan practice
    Hold a paradoxical question that the rational mind cannot solve, to provoke a non-conceptual shift.
    Zen Practice (Zazen and Beyond)
  5. Take the Free Observer stance
    Observe thoughts from an imagined internal vantage point that has no stake in their content.
    Detached Mindfulness, Made Practical
  6. Write the answers rather than running them in your head
    The exercise only counters emotional distortion if the three answers are externalized and visible.
    The 10-10-10 Rule
  7. Create collision conditions: change context deliberately
    Put yourself in a physically or mentally different environment to force new associations.
    Combinatorial Creativity, Made Practical
  8. Generate solutions without premature evaluation
    List as many potential solutions as possible before judging any of them.
    Problem-Solving Therapy, Made Practical
  9. Give Self 2 a concrete focus anchor
    Occupy Self 1 with a specific sensory observation task so it stops issuing unhelpful instructions.
    The Inner Game: Quieting Self 1
  10. Notice the noticer
    Find the part of you that is observing the thought — and recognize it is not the thought.
    Self-as-Context (Observing Self), Made Practical

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