Coaching für die Herausforderungen, die Menschen wirklich mitbringen (page 100)

SCAMPER: A Systematic Creativity Technique · Reverse and Rearrange · Run WOOP as a quick repeatable routine + 7 more

Affirmations · Use affirmation of values, not affirmation of ability · Self-Affirmation Theory, Made Practical + 7 more

Tolerate silence · Use silence intentionally · Tolerate the silence + 7 more

Distinguish between content consumption and genuine connection · Replace passive scrolling with active, intentional social media use · Distinguish passive from active social media use + 7 more

Conduct a quarterly unfollow audit · Replace passive scrolling with active, intentional social media use · Distinguish passive from active social media use + 7 more

Tactical Empathy · Take their perspective accurately · Mirror to keep them talking + 7 more

Practice intentional technology use — pause before opening any device · Set explicit values-based rules for each technology you keep · Screen tools against your values + 7 more

The Enneagram · Body center awareness — gut, heart, or head · Working with the holy idea and virtue of your type + 7 more

Run a one-week time log · Analyze your log for patterns and surprises · The Time Audit + 7 more

TRIZ: Systematic Invention and the Logic of Contradictions · Sample inventive principles to generate solution directions · Trim components to find what you can remove + 7 more

Run WOOP as a quick repeatable routine · WOOP: Wish, Outcome, Obstacle, Plan · Apply mini-WOOP to daily choices and temptations + 7 more

Schedule a fixed worry window · Contain worry in a designated worry period · Worry stimulus control: confine worry to a designated time + 7 more

Use a signature strength in a new way each day for one week · Use your signature strengths in a new way · Identify your core strengths through your own history + 7 more

Use the right level of validation for the situation · Share the review with someone who will ask honest questions · Signal credibility without claiming it + 7 more

Validate the emotion as legitimate · Use the right level of validation for the situation · Validate: acknowledge what makes sense about their perspective + 7 more

Translate price into hours of work or future value · Convert time decisions to a common currency · Treat money as fungible across the buckets + 7 more

Make your future self vivid to reduce psychological distance · Shrink the felt distance to the future reward · Build a vivid, concrete future orientation + 7 more

Go for quantity first · Use SCAMPER and other prompts to vary ideas · Separate divergence from convergence sessions + 7 more

Map relationships, not just items · Use spoken audio for explanations paired with visual diagrams · Use colors and images to encode categories and relationships + 7 more

Train imagery vividness and controllability as skills · Image the process, not the outcome · Use your mental representation to plan the performance before executing it + 7 more

Shift your schedule toward your chronotype gradually · Beat the snooze (the wake-up application) · Wake early and own the first hour + 7 more

Beat the snooze (the wake-up application) · Shift your schedule toward your chronotype gradually · Wake early and own the first hour + 7 more

Walk away cleanly when the deal falls below your reservation price · Negotiate: know your minimum and be willing to give and take · Know your BATNA + 7 more

Apply the dichotomy of control to your desires · Examining the desire before chasing it · Cool the purchase by abstracting it + 7 more

Evaluate evidence by its likelihood ratio, not by how it makes you feel · Apply the same evidence standard regardless of whether you like the conclusion · State your prior probability before seeing the evidence + 7 more

Write every Action Step starting with a verb · Decompose tasks to a single next physical action · The Action Method, Made Practical + 7 more

Write an ambitious, qualitative Objective · Design process goals that are specific, observable, and within your control · One-minute goals: write them short enough to re-read in a minute + 7 more

Use the four-part structure for maximum impact · Write unsent letters for private emotional processing · Decide deliberately whether and how to deliver each letter + 7 more

OKRs for People, Not Just Companies · Run a regular review cadence · Keep OKRs separate from your task list + 7 more

Design process goals that are specific, observable, and within your control · Process Goals, Made Practical · Review process goal execution separately from outcomes after each performance + 7 more

Find Your Why, Made Practical · Articulate your personal "Why" as a leader · Write a values declaration as the core of your legacy letter + 7 more

Use a post-settlement settlement to improve a deal after agreement · Logroll by trading issues of unequal importance · Run a negotiation debrief to learn what value was left on the table + 7 more

Use HRV as real-time feedback during sessions · HRV biofeedback — using heart rate data to train autonomic flexibility · HRV biofeedback with a real-time sensor + 7 more

Use HRV as real-time feedback during sessions · HRV biofeedback — using heart rate data to train autonomic flexibility · HRV biofeedback with a real-time sensor + 7 more

Use HRV as real-time feedback during sessions · Understand how resonance frequency breathing differs from general slow breathing · Resonance frequency breathing (slow-paced breathing) + 7 more

Act on early body signals (needs care) · Use water to distinguish thirst from hunger · Identifying the nine hungers before eating + 7 more

Write the hypothesis before you act · Design the experiment as an environmental probe · Apply the experiential processes early, behavioral ones later + 7 more

Get specific, not just "bad" · Label whether you feel shame or guilt · Build shame resilience + 7 more

Setting Boundaries, Made Practical · I-Statements: How to Express Yourself Without Triggering Defensiveness · Communicate boundaries directly + 7 more

Map your personal emotion triggers · Map your emotional landscape · Observe the emotion without feeding it + 7 more

Diagnose before you prescribe with COM-B · Map your immunity to change · Identify the main internal obstacle that stands between you and the wish + 7 more

The emotional eating pause — a 10-minute delay before comfort eating · Identifying the nine hungers before eating · Map your personal emotion triggers + 7 more

Reconstruct your identity post-loss · Task 3: Adjust to a world without the person · Find a community that recognises your specific loss + 7 more

Reconstruct your identity post-loss · Task 3: Adjust to a world without the person · Map the assumptive world the loss disrupted + 7 more

Anchor each goal to a named, personal value · Excavate core values before writing goals · Audit why you are pursuing each goal + 7 more

Build self-knowledge from behavioral evidence · Audit your self-beliefs for consistency · Reduce social comparison as a source of self-definition + 7 more

Watching the becoming-link: how identity solidifies into suffering · Common humanity: remember you are not alone · Find the meaning within — not despite — your suffering + 7 more

Separate your identity from the investment · The Sunk Cost Fallacy: Escaping Bad Investments · Apply reverse sunk-cost thinking to existing commitments + 7 more

Shift identity from self-concept to awareness itself · Watching the becoming-link: how identity solidifies into suffering · Witnessing thoughts — observing without being them + 7 more

Identity Priming, Made Practical · Respond to identity threats without self-concept collapse · Make a small public commitment that locks in the identity + 7 more

Make a small public commitment that locks in the identity · Use decisive action to build, not just express, self-concept clarity · Identity Priming, Made Practical + 7 more

Build FI identity alongside the financial plan · Redirect freed cash to a single, named goal · Define multiple FI levels, not just one number + 7 more

Audit person-judgments for prototype substitution · Shift identity from self-concept to awareness itself · Respond to identity threats without self-concept collapse + 7 more

Make a small public commitment that locks in the identity · Identity Priming, Made Practical · Respond to identity threats without self-concept collapse + 7 more

Make a small public commitment that locks in the identity · Track self-stability over time · Test your story for coherence and credibility + 7 more

Make a small public commitment that locks in the identity · Definitional Ceremonies and Outsider Witnesses · Test your story for coherence and credibility + 7 more

Anchor self-definition in values, not roles · Test your story for coherence and credibility · Broaden your self-concept beyond one domain + 7 more

Respond to identity threats without self-concept collapse · Journal as the person you are becoming, not the person you have been · Definitional Ceremonies and Outsider Witnesses + 7 more

Anchor each goal to a named, personal value · Excavate core values before writing goals · Review goal-self fit at regular intervals + 7 more

Separate values from goals · Audit why you are pursuing each goal · Excavate core values before writing goals + 7 more

Journal as the person you are becoming, not the person you have been · Write about yourself using your own name · The distanced daily debrief + 7 more

Separate the self from the self-story · Frame desired behaviors as identities, not actions · Respond to identity threats without self-concept collapse + 7 more

Respond to identity threats without self-concept collapse · Broaden your self-concept beyond one domain · Normalize impostor feelings through selective disclosure + 7 more

Borrow an identity temporarily by asking "what would [person] do?" · Build self-familiarity with new identities through low-stakes repetition · Identity Priming, Made Practical + 7 more

Activate unity — shared identity before the message · Make a small public commitment that locks in the identity · Cultivating complicity: shared secret aliveness + 7 more

Make a small public commitment that locks in the identity · Identity Priming, Made Practical · Journal as the person you are becoming, not the person you have been + 7 more

Identity Priming, Made Practical · Channel attention to the relevant concept before the ask · Activate unity — shared identity before the message + 7 more

Identity Priming, Made Practical · Hold models loosely · Respond to identity threats without self-concept collapse + 7 more

Definitional Ceremonies and Outsider Witnesses · Cultivate a scout identity: "I’m the kind of person who updates" · Update the self-concept incrementally + 7 more

Track self-stability over time · Find the continuous self beneath changing contents · Anchor self-definition in values, not roles + 7 more

Use values affirmation to counter stereotype threat · Respond to identity threats without self-concept collapse · Journal as the person you are becoming, not the person you have been + 7 more

If–Then Planning, Made Practical · Set default rules for willpower-intense situations · Ask “and then what?” three times + 7 more

Update protectors after an unburdening · Distinguish protectors from exiles · Understanding protectors + 7 more

Invite the release — do not force it · Use an imaginal release that fits the part · Invite new qualities in after the release + 7 more

Check whether a third option is changing your view of the original two · Use "take the best": choose on your single most informative cue · Judge decisions by the process, not the result + 7 more

Map your personal sources of meaning · Use benefit-finding specifically for illness-related adversity · Meaning-Centered Therapy, Made Practical + 7 more

Add immediate feedback as the reward · Deliver rewards immediately after the target behavior occurs · Use escalating rewards to maintain motivation across time + 7 more

Receive corrective feedback promptly after a test attempt · Build immediate feedback loops into every repetition · Choose the right moment and setting for feedback + 7 more

Give feedback in the moment, not stockpiled for reviews · Make feedback flow in both directions · Ask for ideas about the future, not assessments of the past + 7 more

Redesign your reward schedule so immediate consequences favor long-term goals · Make consequences immediate to bridge the reward delay problem · Deliver rewards immediately after the target behavior occurs + 7 more

Redirect symbolic immortality into genuine contribution · Ask the legacy question · Cathedral thinking + 7 more

Map your immunity to change · Map your immunity to change · Expect to adapt more than you think you will + 7 more

Map your immunity to change · Resistance training 2–3 times per week regardless of age · Regular aerobic exercise to maintain telomere length + 7 more

Map your immunity to change · Map your immunity to change · Test the big assumption behind your immunity + 7 more

Name the actual impact on you or the team · Add a forward-looking request to SBI · Choose the right moment and setting for feedback + 7 more

Hold impermanence without grief · The impermanence gratitude turn · Sensation-level impermanence noting + 7 more

Committed action: making specific, values-linked behavioral commitments · Turn the chosen domain into a committed action · Values-Based Action (ACT), Made Practical + 7 more

Focus on interests, not positions · Negotiate: know your minimum and be willing to give and take · Logroll by trading issues of unequal importance + 7 more

Elicit your own tacit knowledge by working through cases · Self-awareness · Develop a shared vocabulary for tacit distinctions + 7 more

Normalize impostor feelings through selective disclosure · Say it out loud to someone safe · Impostor Phenomenon, Made Practical + 7 more

Receive feedback with minimal defensiveness · Actively seek feedback on your blind spots · Use the performance-feedback loop without Self 1 + 7 more

Activate the pause-and-plan response before acting · Arm an if-then plan for the impulsive moment · Urge Surfing: Riding Out the Impulse Without Acting + 7 more

Choose the right moment and setting for feedback · Give feedback in the moment, not stockpiled for reviews · Build in immediate feedback + 7 more

Omission Bias — Why Doing Nothing Feels Safer Than Acting · Apply the outcome equivalence test · Reframe the inaction as a positive act + 7 more

Make one of five decisions for every email · Keep your Focus List physically visible · Disagree and commit — reduce the decision drag of endless debate + 7 more

Choose between carrots and sticks based on your goal type · Use escalating rewards to maintain motivation across time · Apply the experiential processes early, behavioral ones later + 7 more

Opportunity Cost Thinking: What You Give Up When You Choose · Always name the specific thing you are giving up · Price the cost of keeping options open + 7 more

Recognition-Primed Decision Making · Stay inside for high-stakes, irreversible decisions · Recognize when contrast is being used on you + 7 more

State needs directly rather than testing for them · For anxious: down-regulate before pursuing · Regulate the anxious protest response + 7 more

Use identity pacts · Indistractable, Made Practical · Respond to identity threats without self-concept collapse + 7 more