Step back from formal sitting for now
Pause or sharply shorten formal meditation while things are unsettled — easing off is a legitimate response, not a failure.
Pourquoi ça marche
In the Lindahl study, the amount, intensity or consistency of practice was identified as a risk factor when intensive periods coincided with other factors, and one of the causality criteria the researchers used was whether an experience decreased when practice was reduced. Britton’s review argues that mindfulness-related processes can follow an inverted-U course, helpful up to a point and then not. If practice is feeding the difficulty, reducing the dose removes a driver while you steady — which is why many practitioners and teachers in the 2020 follow-up study responded to distress by changing or stopping practice.
Comment faire
- For the next few days, stop long or intensive sittings entirely. If you want some contact with practice, keep it to a few minutes with your eyes open — or skip it.
- Set aside any technique that intensifies inward attention (close noting, body sweeping, breath work, long silent sits) until you have talked it through with a teacher who knows these experiences.
- If you are on retreat, tell the teacher or manager what is happening today; you are allowed to change your schedule, take a walk instead of a sitting, or leave.
- Replace the time you would have sat with something ordinary and steadying: a walk, a meal with someone, a simple household task.
- If you have thoughts of harming yourself, or you feel out of touch with reality, call or text 988 in the US (the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline), find a line in your country at findahelpline.com, or call your local emergency number now.
Données probantes
Lindahl et al. (2017) interviewed 60 Western Buddhist practitioners — 20 each from Theravāda, Zen and Tibetan traditions — and 32 meditation teachers and clinicians. They identified the amount, intensity or consistency of practice as a risk factor when intensive periods converged with other factors, and assessed whether experiences decreased when practice was reduced. Lindahl et al. (2020) report that distress more often led practitioners to some intervention — such as changing meditation practice, stopping meditating, or engaging with grounding activities — than to treating it as an expected stage. Britton (2019) reviews signs that mindfulness-related processes can turn from helpful to unhelpful at higher doses or in some conditions. (observational)
These are qualitative and review studies. They show that reducing practice is a common, reasonable response reported by practitioners and teachers; no trial has tested how much to reduce, or for how long. The same study notes some teachers encourage steady practice for difficulties they expect to pass — which is a judgement for a teacher who knows you, not something to push through alone.
Sources
- Lindahl, J. R., Fisher, N. E., Cooper, D. J., Rosen, R. K., & Britton, W. B. (2017). The varieties of contemplative experience: A mixed-methods study of meditation-related challenges in Western Buddhists. PLOS ONE, 12(5), e0176239.
- Lindahl, J. R., Cooper, D. J., Fisher, N. E., Kirmayer, L. J., & Britton, W. B. (2020). Progress or pathology? Differential diagnosis and intervention criteria for meditation-related challenges: Perspectives from Buddhist meditation teachers and practitioners. Frontiers in Psychology, 11, 1905.
- Britton, W. B. (2019). Can mindfulness be too much of a good thing? The value of a middle way. Current Opinion in Psychology, 28, 159–165.
Erreur fréquente
Sitting longer and harder to “get through it” because a book or a peer said this is a stage — when the experience is already telling you the current dose is too much.
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Plus de pratiques pour Meditation-Related Challenges: When Practice Makes You Feel Worse
- Ground through the senses, with your eyes open
Bring attention outward to the room, your feet on the floor and the weight of your body — not further inward.
- Move your body and do ordinary things
Swap stillness for ordinary movement and everyday tasks — a brisk walk, cooking, tidying — at a normal pace.
- Lean on sleep, food, routine and people
Treat regular sleep, proper meals, a simple daily rhythm and time with people you trust as part of what steadies you.
- Talk to a teacher who knows these experiences
Tell an experienced meditation teacher what is happening — ideally one who has helped students through difficulty before.
- Find a clinician who understands meditation-related difficulties
When it lingers or gets in the way of daily life, see a doctor or therapist — ideally one familiar with meditation — and know where urgent help is.
- Stop noting when things start dissolving and fear takes over
If close noting has turned into everything falling apart and terror, set the technique down and steady yourself first — the map can wait.
- Come back to solid ground when awareness practice makes things feel unreal
If looking for the mind or resting in open awareness leaves the world flat, dreamlike or far away, stop the inquiry and anchor in concrete, outward things first.
- Hold off on deciding what it means
Let the experience be unexplained for now, rather than forcing it into a story of spiritual breakthrough or of breakdown.
- Return to practice gradually, with guidance
If and when you feel steady, come back slowly — short, gentle sessions, agreed with a teacher, with a plan for stopping.
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Compétences sensorielles rapides pour revenir au présent quand la détresse s'aggrave
- The Progress of Insight: The Stages of Insight in Vipassana
The Burmese insight map of what meditators say they pass through — read as a map, not a ladder
- La Nuit Obscure de l'Âme : Jean de la Croix
La cartographie de la désolation spirituelle par Jean de la Croix et les pratiques pour la traverser