Talk to a teacher who knows these experiences

Tell an experienced meditation teacher what is happening — ideally one who has helped students through difficulty before.

Por que funciona

Relationships with teachers and communities appeared in the Lindahl study as both a risk factor (when absent, unhelpful or unsympathetic) and a remedy (when supportive and understanding). A teacher who knows these experiences can help you adjust practice, and can tell when something is beyond their expertise — in the 2020 follow-up, practitioners described teachers recommending other kinds of help when they lacked knowledge of a particular challenge. Saying it out loud also breaks the isolation that tends to amplify fear.

Como fazer

  1. Contact your teacher, or the teacher of the retreat you attended, and describe what you are experiencing in plain words — what it feels like, when it started, how it affects sleep, work and relationships.
  2. Ask directly whether they have worked with students through experiences like this, and what they suggest you do with practice right now.
  3. If their advice is simply to practise harder, or they dismiss what you describe, it is reasonable to seek a second teacher or a clinician as well.
  4. If you have no teacher, ask a meditation centre in your tradition whether they have a teacher experienced with difficulties.

Evidência

Lindahl et al. (2017) report that relationships to teachers were risk factors for difficulties when teachers and communities were absent, unhelpful or not sympathetic, and remedies when they were supportive, helpful and understanding. Lindahl et al. (2020) describe teachers recommending other types of intervention when they lacked specific knowledge of a particular challenge. (observational)

Teachers vary widely in how much they know about meditation-related difficulties; the research describes what helped and harmed, not how to find the right teacher.

Fontes

Erro comum

Keeping it to yourself out of embarrassment, or accepting “that’s just a stage, keep going” as the only possible answer when your daily life is suffering.

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