Socratic Coaching: 10 Evidence-Based Coaching Practices

Describe almost anything you are working through and IX Coach finds the practices whose real-world fit is closest. For Socratic Coaching, these are the strongest matches in the current practice library.

About 2 minutes

Try it here: list open questions to ask instead of advising

Write up to three questions you could ask someone in place of giving advice, so their own thinking leads.

Which open questions could you ask someone instead of advising them?

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Practices that may help

  1. Conduct a genuine Socratic dialogue
    Ask questions you do not already have the answer to, and follow wherever the argument leads.
    The Socratic Method, Made Practical
  2. The Socratic Method, Made Practical
    The Socratic method is a form of disciplined questioning that exposes unstated assumptions, reveals inconsistencies, and forces more precise thinking. Applied to self-examination, it is one of the oldest and most reliable tools for developing genuine self-knowledge — distinct from introspection, which surfaces what you already believe rather than challenging it.
  3. Engage in genuine philosophical dialogue
    Have a conversation with the goal of getting clearer together, not of winning or validating.
    The Examined Life
  4. Powerful open questions at every stage
    Ask questions that invite thinking, not ones that suggest answers — and ask more than you tell.
    The GROW Coaching Model, Made Practical
  5. Socratic Questioning
    Socratic questioning is a disciplined method of asking probing questions to expose the foundations, assumptions, evidence, and implications of a claim — rather than asserting a counter-position. Richard Paul’s taxonomy provides the most practical framework for applying it. The method’s value is demonstrated by centuries of philosophical use and its adoption in clinical and educational practice; large-scale experimental evidence is limited.
  6. Maintain a high question-to-statement ratio throughout GROW
    Ask questions far more often than you offer statements — the coachee’s thinking is the product.
    The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
  7. Stay curious one beat longer before advising
    Resist the urge to give the answer for one more question — ask what they think first.
    The Leader as Coach: A New Management Paradigm
  8. Apply Socratic questioning to your own thinking (not just others’)
    Use the same question types on your own beliefs that you would use to probe someone else’s.
    Socratic Questioning
  9. Explore Reality — establish an honest assessment of the current situation
    Help the person see their current situation clearly and specifically, without judgment or premature solutions.
    The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People
  10. Use GROW in brief leadership conversations, not just formal coaching sessions
    Apply GROW structure to 5-minute hallway conversations and 1-on-1 check-ins — not only to hour-long coaching sessions.
    The GROW Model: Coaching Conversations That Actually Move People

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