Vulnerability Based Trust Exercises: 10 Evidence-Based Coaching Practices
Describe almost anything you are working through and IX Coach finds the practices whose real-world fit is closest. For Vulnerability Based Trust Exercises, these are the strongest matches in the current practice library.
Practices that may help
- Lower your guard to raise the intimacy score
Sharing something real about yourself makes others feel safer sharing something real with you.
The Trust Equation, Made Practical - Be transparent about your competence limits
Name what you can do, what you can’t, and what you’ll need to learn — before you are found out.
The Trust Triangle - Build vulnerability-based trust
Teams that can’t admit weakness, mistakes, or ignorance to each other cannot genuinely collaborate.
The Five Dysfunctions of a Team, Made Practical - Extend trust deliberately to invite it
Trust others first, in bounded ways, before they have earned every dimension — it is how trust is built.
The Trust Triangle - Diagnose which trust dimension is broken before trying to repair
Name the specific trust assessment that failed — then address that one, not trust in general.
The Trust Triangle - Earn the right to deepen the relationship in stages
Trust compounds over time — start with technical credibility and expand into intimacy as it is earned.
The Trust Equation, Made Practical - The Trust Equation, Made Practical
The Trust Equation (Maister, Green, and Galford) holds that trustworthiness = (credibility + reliability + intimacy) ÷ self-orientation. The model is a practitioner framework rather than a rigorously tested theory, but it usefully names the levers — especially self-orientation, which is the single biggest trust-killer most leaders overlook. - Combine the pre-mortem with red team pressure
Run a pre-mortem and then ask the red team to find the failure mode the team missed.
Red Teaming: Stress-Testing Plans Before They Fail - Build a credibility foundation before showing vulnerability
The pratfall effect only works if people already perceive you as competent — so earn that first.
The Pratfall Effect, Made Practical - Have explicit trust conversations when trust is at stake
Name the trust issue directly rather than managing it indirectly.
The Trust Triangle
Does this sound like the set of challenges you might be facing?
- I keep everything at work behind a polished, guarded front
- When I’m handed something past what I actually know, I nod and act like I’ve got it rather than admit the gap, then scramble in secret to cover
- On my team nobody will admit they’re stuck or wrong or don’t know something
- I won’t hand anyone real responsibility until they’ve completely proven themselves first
- Trust with this person has cracked and I just keep apologizing for "not being trustworthy" in this big vague way
Related concerns
- Building Vulnerability Based Trust
Trust others first, in bounded ways, before they have earned every dimension — it is how trust is built.
Extend trust deliberately to invite it
- How To Build Vulnerability Based Trust
Sharing something real about yourself makes others feel safer sharing something real with you.
Lower your guard to raise the intimacy score
- Vulnerability Based Trust
Sharing something real about yourself makes others feel safer sharing something real with you.
- Vulnerability Based Trust Questions
Sharing something real about yourself makes others feel safer sharing something real with you.
- Extend Trust First
Trust others first, in bounded ways, before they have earned every dimension — it is how trust is built.
- How To Build Trust And Vulnerability
Sharing something real about yourself makes others feel safer sharing something real with you.
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